Everything is a mess right now….
But I’ll try to tell it in the right order..
My sister wrote my parents a mail a couple of days ago, telling them that the kids, especially Rebecca, missed them and wants to see them.
They haven’t told the kids why they are not on speaking terms.
My parents wrote a mail back telling them that seeing my parents included seeing me, and that my sister and brother in law was the ones that would not let them see the kids.
BIL called my Mum today telling them that I was no longer a part of the family and that the kids would have nothing to do with me and I was not allowed to see them, so if my parents insisted that I went with them, they would not see the kids…..he then gave my Mum a few days to decide what to do about it….
Yesterday my Mum and I went shopping for shoes and coats for our Bosnia-girls and had coffee and had a great time…..then last night after writing mails, I just started crying without any real reason….I couldn’t get myself together so I went and spend the night at my parents, that is why I know BIL called today.
I talked with my Mum last night and stopped crying and today I am ok.
I think I really need that psychologist, but the ones I have talked to have a three month waiting list, and I don`t think I can wait that long…..and I can`t expect my Mum to handle it because of the third thing…
My dad is really sick, he has gone so far down in his depression that all he can do is lay in bed and cry. He don`t eat, he can hardly talk so we can understand him, he can`t even get to the bathroom by himself…..
So my Mum called in sick at work and I stayed with her today and is going back tomorrow and try to help out.
The doctor wont be back until Monday so there is not much we can do now.
So I’m there to cook and shop and walk the dog, and sit with my Dad and try to help my Mum, and all I really want to do is kill my siblings for bringing this on my parents…
If it haven’t been for lj and you guys I really have no idea what I would do.
Thank you for being such wonderful friends, I love you♥
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Comments
We love you babe!
The thing with my sister started four years ago and got worse when I got cancer, where my sister told my parents to choose between me and their grandkids, resulting that my parents haven`t seen the girls for almost two years......
♥I love you too♥
Hugs
♥hugs you♥
I hope your Dad starts to improve, and please email me if you need to talk or just a good old rant to get it off your chest, anytime, you know you can.
*hugs*♥
You know how my sister is, this is jsut another way to hurt my parents and try to make trouble in the family...
I got really worried about my Dad today, because at one point I was sitting with him and he couldn`t recognise me, that scared me....
I mailed you earlier today telling you almost the same story, but I´m sure you`ll get more mails;)
♥hugs♥
Send away hun, you know I'm here when you need me, anytime. Just rant away and get it off your chest, it will help and I'm a good listener.
*love & hugs*
♥love you♥
I'm so sad to hear that -_- How can they do that to you and your parents. You definitely don't deserve that, nobody does! èé It is a shame! And STUPID!
I'm so sorry to hear that your dad isn't well... I don't know what to say because I know it is certainly really hard for you and your mum... I hope he'll see a doctor and try to talk.
*HUGS YOU TIGHT*
I'm so sad I can't be a great help to you, I really wished I could do much more than just writing a few words to you.
I love you, you know that and I so hope you'll be fine, you and your family. You have each others, it is important.
♥♥♥
Thank you for your kind words....
Well you know how my sister is, but I get shocked every time she does something stupid like that...
I hope the doctor can help my Dad too, because he is a complete mess....
And you are a great help to me...just knowing that you`re here for me, listening to me, answering my posts and thinking of me, makes everything easier for me♥
I love you and so does my parents you know.
♥hugs and kisses♥
Let us know for your dad, please. I'm worried.
And take care of yourself♥
Say hi and kiss your parents for me^^
It's what we're here for dear ^_^
You are so right, thank you♥
You know it is comments like this and guys like you that makes my life easier in times like this.
♥hugs♥
I love you too♥
*hugs*
I do kinda get some of it. My family had a fight and split up. I no longer talk to... pretty much everyone who's not my parents or a sibling. But to use such a dirty trick; to say 'hey guys, remember those grandchildren you have? They miss you! Just say you're siding with us, and you can see them'. That's so low!
My uncle was in the hospital a few weeks back, and while I stopped talking to my aunt over a year ago, I still called to check up on him until he got out of the hospital.
Taunting your parents like that? That's just wrong.
Sorry about your dad. I think he really should seek counseling before it's too late.
You should look for someone to talk to, too. It'll make things easier for you, help you get better in more ways than one.
Big hugs to you and your parents!
♥
Yeah that about sums it up!!!
Thank you, and thank you for understanding.
It is always hard when family fight, but especially at times like this where we could use help and support.
And ipromis to get some help too.
♥big hugs to you♥
I am so sorry for all you going through Minx, i wish i could help...
*sends you hugs*
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Thanks you so much I really appreciate you and your help and talks, and as I´ve told you before, your fics have saved my sanity more than one time.
♥hugs back♥
MINX
I know there is nothign i can do from all the way over here but I am sending the biggest hug and love.
And yes, what that other comment says, LJ is cheaper than a shrink and we will always listen ♥
And it is cheaper than a shrink.
♥hugs
I'm so sorry hon.
*hugs tight*
♥hugs back♥ thank you..