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Hospitals, hospitals…

Just got two letters from the hospital.
One saying that I’m to have my mammography next Tuesday afternoon, and one saying that I have to admit to the hospital Wednesday at 7.30 in the morning for the removal of my chest tube. Oh and in order to get that I have to go to the hospital on Monday for blood tests;)

My Dad went to the doctor last Tuesday for his results of blood tests and all the other tests the doctor took last time.
All of his internal organs was as perfectly ok as they could be considering that he has a bad heart. The doctor even took a blood test for cancer just to be sure;)
He have a severe depression, and have to go back on Monday for further talk about how to handle that, but we can work that out.

My Mum is going to the doctor tomorrow to get a check up, she have a depression too…

So for now I’ve postponed my depression, cause I can`t handle tree at one time along with everything else;)

But in order to “celebrate” my hospital visits Mum asked me out for dinner tomorrow, so it’ll be cosy;)
My Dad don`t want to go so it’ll just be Mum and me;)


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Oct. 2nd, 2008 02:02 pm (UTC)
Oh, hun. It's good to know you finally have the dates. But you know, postponing your depression and keeeping it to yourself won't help either of you.
Maybe you too should go talk to a psychologist. Maybe a group-session with your parents.

I mean it's obvious that your illness is hard on them and I'm guessing the treatment you get from your sister and got from your brother doesn't make it easier.

I think that although you want to be the strong one right now you should be honest with them and you know sometimes crying on someone's shoulder helps.

*hugs tight*
Oct. 2nd, 2008 05:38 pm (UTC)
You`re so right you know...
I talked to my Mum about it yesterday and she told me to give into it too.
It is just I need to keep in control for now with everything happening around me, and if I give into it everything will go to hell....
But on day soon it`ll get the better of me, and I just have t osee what happens then.
♥hugs back♥
Oct. 2nd, 2008 05:55 pm (UTC)
And that's the point. I fully understand that you want to keep things under control but when it gets the better fo you it will be too late- you need to start working on it now if you don't want it to crush you.

I know that sounds harsh and you're probably thinking that foolish girl doesn't know what she's talking about ...

Anyway, please take care of yourself.

ps: you haven't gotten my parce yet, have you?
Oct. 2nd, 2008 06:15 pm (UTC)
You are right and I don`t think you´re foolish or harsh...
I promise you, I´ll go see the doctor when I have had the surgery done.
Thanks so much, I love you for all your concern.
No, I haven`t gotten the parcel yet, I´ll let you know as soon as it arrives;)
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Oct. 2nd, 2008 05:39 pm (UTC)
Thanks hon,
Glad to know that you had an amazing vacation, your card was wonderful;)
Looking forward to the report^^
I know you`re gonna write tonight, Gem told me;)
♥loves you♥
Oct. 2nd, 2008 05:40 pm (UTC)
That's great news that you got your appointments, I'm so pleased you are eventually getting this sorted:) Wishing you the best of luck for this:)

I hope your parents get better quickly and you and your Mum have a great time tomorrow:)

*hugs you tight*♥
Oct. 2nd, 2008 05:50 pm (UTC)
Thanks honey,
I´m relieved that it gets done now, I get so nervous just waiting;)
Yeah I hope my parents get better too...
Thanks, we´ll enjoy it, we always do;)
♥loves you♥
Oct. 2nd, 2008 07:05 pm (UTC)
I'm happy to know that you have dates for all that! At last!^^ I'm pretty sure you'll feel better after^^
And I do hope with all my heart that your parents will feel soon better soon enough!
Oct. 2nd, 2008 07:58 pm (UTC)
Thanks sweetie,
I´m sure things will get easier, when everything is over next week;)
And thank you so much for your well wishes to my parents, it means the world to me.
♥I love you♥
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