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I am so sorry about this, but I just was on the phone with my brother… we were discussing Sarah.

She has a vacation from school this week and I called my brother 10 days ago to make a movie appointment for me and Sarah.
I then send three emails trying to get a date, the last one informing him that Wednesday and Thursday was the best days for me…
I called him yesterday to get a day and he told me he would call today with an answer. He did not. This afternoon I called him and he told me he would call back with a day. Five hours later he called, telling me that I could get Sarah on Saturday or forget about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Apparently my sister, with whom I have not been on speaking terms for the past two years, was to drop of her kids at my brothers place either Wednesday or Thursday..
So of cause me, who had been on “the waiting list” for almost two weeks did not count.
I said yes because I miss Sarah and want to be with her (Just typing her name makes me cry) and it is not her fault…

But somehow this make me realise that I mean nothing to my brother!!!!!!!! And that is hard, even though it has been building up ever since my brother and sister-in-law threw our parents out of their house.
My brother and I have always been very close, so it is hard to realise that as a big sister you mean nothing!!!!!!!!
I went through that two years ago with my sister so I know what I am up fore…but anyway…………
Right now I just feel so sad even though I look forward to getting Sarah on Saturday..
Sometimes I just don`t get family!!!!!!!!



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Feb. 18th, 2008 07:35 pm (UTC)
*sends you big hugs* Oh hon! I'm so sorry for you, that just sucks!

Families can be really hard to understand sometimes, my sis and I had a misunderstanding at the weekend and made me feel like s**t even though it was her took everything out of context, but we sorted it, thank god.

I don't know how your borther could do that when you asked weeks ago, that's really mean surely he could have still given you one of those days!

Thankfully you still get to see Sarah.

*hugs & kisses*
Feb. 19th, 2008 02:15 am (UTC)
Thanks for the hugs honey..
I don`t know what to do with my siblings, I just want to kill them!!
My brother and sister-in-law don`t care about me, I don`t fit into their lifestyle....They care about money and status, and I don`t!!
But I get Sarah on Saturday, and that is all that matters.
Glad you worked things out with your sister;)
Feb. 18th, 2008 09:00 pm (UTC)

Family is hard sometimes, but at the same time they are important and don't give up on them to soon.

*Sender masse sympati og kjærlighet*

Ja det siste ble på norsk :P

Feb. 19th, 2008 02:12 am (UTC)
Tak min søde,
You make me feel better;)
Feb. 18th, 2008 09:11 pm (UTC)
My Dear Kastanje Honey!!!
I'm so sorry to hear that! I just don't get your brother and sister! è_é You're a so marvellous person they should be happy and proud to have you!
I know that it is not consolating but I'm here, you know that and I love you!
So just keep saying that you'll see Sarah and Saturday and that you'll have a great day!
Feb. 19th, 2008 02:17 am (UTC)
Aww sweetie,
You are so kind to me, and always makes me feel better...
I know you are here for me, and it helps a lot, cause you let me rant and cry, and then you comfort me;)
I`ll have a great day with Sarah on Saturday, promise!!
I love you♥
Feb. 19th, 2008 12:58 pm (UTC)
You go and have fun with Sarah and don't let your family ruin that day for you!

I never get why some people act the way they do, but you are a wonderful, caring, great person and they are the ones missing out by acting like they do.

Feb. 19th, 2008 03:50 pm (UTC)
We will have fun I promise, it is not her or my fault that her parents don`t care about me..
Thanks for your sweet words hon, you always knows how to cheer me up;)
*hugs back*
Feb. 24th, 2008 05:52 pm (UTC)
Ok, so Sarah is your niece? and you two wanted to have a movie night. is she your brother's or your sister's kid? I think I don't really get it. I get that your brother is an ass and that you don't talk to your sister.
I can't help you much here but give you lots of hugs and hope your brother realises what a wonderful and lovely person you are. I know better than to trust my family when it comes to phone calls or promises so I know how you feel.
*Hugs you tight*

ps: I wanted to ask you if you have a photo of that cookies your grandpa used to make.
Feb. 24th, 2008 06:07 pm (UTC)
Sarah is my first niece and she is my God-daughter, and I love her more than anybody in the world..
My brother is an ass, but I keep up with him because of Sarah...She has a sister, Thea, and she turns one in May..

My sister cut me out of her life two years ago, so I don`t see her kids..

*hugs back honey*

Thanks for all your sweet words;)

I have to ask my Mum about a pic,cause I don`t have one;)
Feb. 24th, 2008 06:33 pm (UTC)
so Sarah and Thea are your brother's kids? Okay.
Your sister doesn't know what she is missing. I don't want to pry but may I aks why she did it?

do that. maybe she has one and I can ask my granpa if he knows it. then we will hunt for a recipe. *g*
Feb. 24th, 2008 06:55 pm (UTC)

Sarah and Thea is my brothers kids, Sarah turns 8 in March and Thea one in May..

You are not prying..My sister have always been jealous of me - God knows why, but she always thought that our parents liked me better than her - She got married - and they got two adopted kids from China, two beautiful girls..
But 2½ years ago I had a conversation with her on the phone…She called me a bitch and I told her that she was my YOUNGER sister, so I would not take that from her..
Then I put down the phone..
When I got sick from the breast cancer last year, she called my parents and told them that if they stood by me, they would never see their grandkids again. She got really upset when she discovered I was getting chemotherapy, cause she did not want me to get any treatment. She told our grandmother, and now granny don`t want to talk to her at all.

I’ll ask my Mum for a pic if she have one;)

Take care, honey……….and don`t forget that I love you…

Feb. 24th, 2008 07:17 pm (UTC)
She what???? Is she crazy? How can she talk like that?

Take care too.
love you too.
Feb. 24th, 2008 07:53 pm (UTC)
Yeah I think she is crasy...
She hates me and therfore our parents cannot se their grandkids.....

♥love you sweetie♥
Feb. 24th, 2008 08:16 pm (UTC)
I guess it's true what Dean says: Demons I get, people are crazy.
and the poor kids suffer the most. *shakes head*
Feb. 25th, 2008 11:39 am (UTC)
Yeah Dean is SO right;)I really don`t get my siblings..
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