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I remember better than yesterday.

Mum calling, telling me that she could not wake up Dad, they were at the hospital and I was to take a taxi and get there now. I did and within 20 minutes, I was with Mum at the hospital.

Dad and me

Mum and I saw Dad on life supporting machines, respirator, everything. After a few minutes, we were called into the Doctors that told us that Dad had suffered a massive cerebral hemorrhage in the brain stem and would not wake up….EVER.

Mum broke, as she should, I put a shield around heart and soul, and got practical. First; getting Mum some meds for her diabetes and some food. Calling my BRO and Mum called SIS, getting them to the hospital within minutes. Spending the day at the hospital with Dad, making moves to protect Mum as much as I could even as Mum called an Aunt of mine to go be with my Grandmother, before we had to tell her that she had lost another son.

At 6 in the evening Mum, I, BRO, SIS, SIS then hubby, my Dads sister were with Dad as the Doctor shut of the respirator. Within the next 10 minutes, Dad passed away.

Every year Mum and I goes to the cemetery and exchange gifts; you know that Mum, Dad and I always bought gifts for each other every change we got, and Mum and I still do that. I have bought her a “Zootropolis” soft toy that she AAAWWEEDD over when we watched the movie.

She has bought me “Harry Potter and the cursed child” we collected the English version today.

Tomorrow, Mum, Crazy-Aunt, her boyfriend, and I will go to the cemetery, with flowers, rosemary and an Angel charm. Then we will have a meal, ham with potatoes, vegetables and asparagus sauce.


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Aug. 4th, 2016 06:09 pm (UTC)
Thank you so much Darling♥
Aug. 2nd, 2016 03:45 am (UTC)
I'm sorry he is gone, honey...that is a pain that never truly goes away, I know...

*sends love*
Aug. 4th, 2016 06:10 pm (UTC)
Me too Darling....But knowing other people knew him and liked him, makes it easier.

Aug. 3rd, 2016 12:37 pm (UTC)
Massive hugs to you and your mum, sweetie. Your dad looks like such a lovely man, he was far too young to go like that.
*big hugs to you all*
Aug. 4th, 2016 06:12 pm (UTC)
Thank you Sweetheart. He was lovely, openminded and kind.
It is always to soon.....
Hugs and love back♥
Aug. 9th, 2016 10:21 am (UTC)
*snuggles you* has it been 6 years already? :(
Aug. 9th, 2016 06:14 pm (UTC)
♥ clings ♥

Yes, August 2, 2010....

It is strange to think about.

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