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NEVER GET A F****NG BREAK…….

The facts are like this;

Mum have had two operations the one on June 27th and a very minor one ca 2½ week ago, to remove ½mm of healthy tissue some places in the wound.
Everything went well like you know no cancer anywhere.

Today we then went to the Mamma clinic to hear what kind of treatment Mum would need, if any.
What the doctor told us was this: The healthy tissues had shown changes of cells too.
Still changes NO cancer.
 But it is in 15 different tiny places they know of, and there might likely be more and someday in the future it will turn into cancer.

Therefore Mum needs new surgery to remove her entire breast...
She will go into the hospital on Tuesday afternoon and then have the operation on Wednesday. She will be at the hospital until Friday and then come home…

The upside to this mess is this;
When hopefully everything will heal as it is supposed to, that will be that.
There will be no Chemotherapy or Radiation, they don´t do that after that kind of surgery as changes in cells do not spread to other parts of your body (Mum had some lymph notes removed the first time and they were fine)

She’s  worried it will be to hard on me looking after Balder and Nanna, and I told her to loose all her worries about me and the dogs,,,,,we will be fine and she has other things to worry about..
We went an bought new Troll-beards bracelets and beards after….we always give each other presents no matter if it is good or bad news.

Mum is doing…..well not fine when I left her, but ok. I told her to call anytime around the clock and I would be with her within 10 minutes.
Tomorrow I’ll go buy a new chair and BRO will drive us. As the girls are still on summer hols, they will stay for dinner and movies with Mum later...
So we take all the happy times here….
 

Comments

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jojothecr
Jul. 31st, 2014 05:56 pm (UTC)
Fuck... I'm sorry. I really don't know what else to say...

*hugs you both*
pippii
Aug. 2nd, 2014 02:28 pm (UTC)
Thank you darling...I feel the same way..
Hugs back♥
jojothecr
Aug. 2nd, 2014 03:40 pm (UTC)
p.s. I got your Birthday card. Thank you! And for the lovely charm, too.

Love to you and your mom.
*hugs*
pippii
Aug. 3rd, 2014 03:56 pm (UTC)
You´re welcome hon. I know it isn´t much but I am glad you like it.
Thank you ♥
Hugs
lisaj67
Jul. 31st, 2014 05:56 pm (UTC)
Wow hunni ,you really do have one thing after another,You know I'm wishing you all well,you are always in my prayers and thoughts x :)
pippii
Aug. 2nd, 2014 02:29 pm (UTC)
Thank you Lisa for being here..It means the world to both of us here♥
Huggles♥♥
buzziecat
Jul. 31st, 2014 05:57 pm (UTC)
Hi Pippi,

So sorry to hear about what your mum is going through and I hope all will go well with her surgery.
A question - has she had any other opinion about what to do because of the cell changes? Is the general consensus that breast removal is indicated?

I was away and not online for part of July so might have missed some of your posts.
How are you feeling?

Hugs xoxo
buzzie
pippii
Aug. 2nd, 2014 02:47 pm (UTC)
Thank you Buzzie♥
This is the third time we were in the hospital to hear "news" and Mum has had operations from two diffrent Doctors we´ve talked too.
The breast removal is because they keep finding "sick" cells in the "healty" tissue. In 15 diffrent places.
So to prevent Mum getting actual Breast Cancer sometime in the future, they will stop it with this operation....
Me...I a´m holding on the best I can.....

Huggles♥♥
Pippii
buzziecat
Aug. 2nd, 2014 06:13 pm (UTC)
Hi pippi,

If you have time, would you send me more info? Where are the cells?
Send it in a PM, not here. Thanks.
pippii
Aug. 3rd, 2014 03:57 pm (UTC)
I will Buzzie,
gather my thoughts and send you a mail.
Hugs♥♥
redcandle17
Jul. 31st, 2014 09:52 pm (UTC)
I'm so sorry. I hope the surgery goes well.
pippii
Aug. 2nd, 2014 02:28 pm (UTC)
Thank you hon, I´ll keep you posted♥
honeyjojames
Jul. 31st, 2014 10:35 pm (UTC)
Oh god, sweetie, I'm so sorry to hear this. I can't imagine how stressful it is for you and your mum. I love the fact you give each other presents no matter whether the news is good or bad, that's such a lovely thing to do. Hope you both have a wonderful time with the girls tomorrow!

Will be thinking of you both next week. I'm sending you both good, positive thoughts. Please give your mum a huge hug from me! Huge hugs for you too! ♥
pippii
Aug. 2nd, 2014 02:37 pm (UTC)
Thank you Honey, for your kind words here, presents are nice for us no matter what.
We had a wonderful time with the girls♥
Thank you for being here Honey, you mean the world to me♥
Hugs
bluedelft
Jul. 31st, 2014 11:49 pm (UTC)
(((HUGS)))

So sorry to hear that! Prayers and good thoughts for you and your Mom.

(((MORE HUGS)))
pippii
Aug. 2nd, 2014 02:31 pm (UTC)
Hugs you back from both of us.♥
Thank you♥
a_phoenixdragon
Aug. 1st, 2014 12:55 am (UTC)
Dammit...

Oh, honey, I am so, so sorry. Tell your Mum I am keeping her in my thoughts. And I am holding you all tight in my heart...

*HUGS YOU BOTH*
pippii
Aug. 2nd, 2014 02:33 pm (UTC)
Yes....
Thank you darling♥ I will Doll...
Huggles♥♥♥
biggelois
Aug. 1st, 2014 07:31 am (UTC)
Oh dear lord, it's never enough is it!
At least it sounds like there won't be anything else after this. (small comfort)
I am so sorry to hear this, about what you both are going through.

All the positive vibes I can send are coming your way.

::biggest hugs!!::
pippii
Aug. 2nd, 2014 02:40 pm (UTC)
Never is right???
No Chemo or Radiation is a good thing (That was what crippeled me in the end)
Thank you for being here Darling, means a lot to me♥
Huggles and kisses♥♥
shanachie_quill
Aug. 1st, 2014 11:44 am (UTC)
*hugs* It will all work out. I'll keep your mom in my thoughts and prayers. I'm glad you're there for her.
pippii
Aug. 2nd, 2014 02:30 pm (UTC)
Thanks hun, it will.
Thank you for being here, and for your kind words♥3♥
shanachie_quill
Aug. 2nd, 2014 07:23 pm (UTC)
Very welcome. Anytime. I wish I could do more.
bflyw
Aug. 2nd, 2014 08:07 pm (UTC)
Hold nå opp - nå må det snart være nok!
pippii
Aug. 3rd, 2014 12:36 pm (UTC)
Godt sagt...Jeg tror jeg har brugt alle mine skeer for resten af året nu, så udslit er jeg....og mor er ikke meget bedre.
♥Klemmer
burned_phoenix
Aug. 4th, 2014 07:31 am (UTC)
Darling, I'll email you in a few! I'm not ignoring you! *hugs*
princesslanie
Aug. 5th, 2014 12:30 am (UTC)
i'm so sad to hear this. please give her hugs. i'll be sending positive thought to you both. hang in there. remember to eat and take care of yourself, you won't be any help if your doing poorly.
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