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 Last Saturday Mum had Benedicte (SIS` youngest) over for a few hours.
When SIS picked her up, she told Mum to tell me that I was invited to Benedictes birthday party on Saturday.
As SIS has hated me and abandoned me from the family for years, I kind of went into shock….

But as I had talked to both her and Rebecca at Sarah’s Confirmation, I went and bought a present for her.
A book; Eion Colfer ; “Artemis Fowl” and I made her a nice bookmark too…

I was still kind of shocked that she had invited me – we talked at the Confirmation, and I got hugs from SIS, but still I felt weird.

Then today Mum and I went to buy presents for Thea, for her party on Sunday – she turned 7 last Wednesday - ….
We had a break and then Mum told me that BRO had called her last night.
He and SIL and the girls had visited SIS, Rebecca, Benedicte and Nick (new boyfriend) one day for coffee...
BRO pulled SIS aside, and told her, that if she could talk to me at the Confirmation, she should stop her hating, and invite me for Benedictes birthday party.

So “thanks” to BRO I am going to Benedictes birthday party on Saturday.

It is great and at the same time, I am alert that SIS will do something horrible……..
With SIS I don´t know what to expect ……..

I’ll go on Saturday and they will be there for Thea´s party on Sunday.
So I hope everything will be fine……



May. 28th, 2014 05:23 pm (UTC)
Hi pippi
So nice to hear that you're feeling better and going out.

About your sister's invitation - she didn't have to invite you. Doesn't matter what your brother said. He doesn't make her decisions.

He said you'd both talked at the Confirmation and it was time to stop the hating... and, it seems she has.

So, please, if you go to the party alert that SIS will do something horrible, she might sense it and something might occur.

It's never wrong to be gracious and your sister was.
She invited you.
You're happy to be invited.
Go to the party and have only the objective to Enjoy! ♥♥

Very Happy Birthday Wishes to Benedicte.

Hugs xoxo

Edited at 2014-05-28 05:35 pm (UTC)
May. 29th, 2014 12:47 pm (UTC)
Hey Buzzie,
Thank you for your comment here.
Maybe I used the wrong words here...
What I mean, is that I will go to Benedictes party, be with my sister and hug and talk...
Spend a lot of time with my nieces and take pictures to spam you with, here on LJ.
The thing about SIS I wrote is, that I will not get up my expectations with her, I will not think that she likes me or care about me, because I know she doesn’t, I will take what I can get…….but I will never forgive SIS for what she did and said when I was sick,
But this is an opening, maybe I can spend time with Rebecca and Benedicte, and I will love that.
I can put that aside to spend time with the girls.
Big hugs♥
May. 30th, 2014 12:15 pm (UTC)
Sounds good, pippi.

Either I didn't read about what your sis said and did or I don't recall it but I know you have strong feelings about it. I would not suggest that you forget.

As you said, the BD party is an opening and experiencing it as that and spending a lot of time with Rebecca and Benedicte should make for a lovely time.

May. 30th, 2014 01:03 pm (UTC)
Thanks buzzie♥
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