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 Last Saturday Mum had Benedicte (SIS` youngest) over for a few hours.
When SIS picked her up, she told Mum to tell me that I was invited to Benedictes birthday party on Saturday.
As SIS has hated me and abandoned me from the family for years, I kind of went into shock….

But as I had talked to both her and Rebecca at Sarah’s Confirmation, I went and bought a present for her.
A book; Eion Colfer ; “Artemis Fowl” and I made her a nice bookmark too…

I was still kind of shocked that she had invited me – we talked at the Confirmation, and I got hugs from SIS, but still I felt weird.

Then today Mum and I went to buy presents for Thea, for her party on Sunday – she turned 7 last Wednesday - ….
We had a break and then Mum told me that BRO had called her last night.
He and SIL and the girls had visited SIS, Rebecca, Benedicte and Nick (new boyfriend) one day for coffee...
BRO pulled SIS aside, and told her, that if she could talk to me at the Confirmation, she should stop her hating, and invite me for Benedictes birthday party.

So “thanks” to BRO I am going to Benedictes birthday party on Saturday.

It is great and at the same time, I am alert that SIS will do something horrible……..
With SIS I don´t know what to expect ……..

I’ll go on Saturday and they will be there for Thea´s party on Sunday.
So I hope everything will be fine……



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May. 28th, 2014 05:23 pm (UTC)
Hi pippi
So nice to hear that you're feeling better and going out.

About your sister's invitation - she didn't have to invite you. Doesn't matter what your brother said. He doesn't make her decisions.

He said you'd both talked at the Confirmation and it was time to stop the hating... and, it seems she has.

So, please, if you go to the party alert that SIS will do something horrible, she might sense it and something might occur.

It's never wrong to be gracious and your sister was.
She invited you.
You're happy to be invited.
Go to the party and have only the objective to Enjoy! ♥♥

Very Happy Birthday Wishes to Benedicte.

Hugs xoxo

Edited at 2014-05-28 05:35 pm (UTC)
May. 29th, 2014 12:47 pm (UTC)
Hey Buzzie,
Thank you for your comment here.
Maybe I used the wrong words here...
What I mean, is that I will go to Benedictes party, be with my sister and hug and talk...
Spend a lot of time with my nieces and take pictures to spam you with, here on LJ.
The thing about SIS I wrote is, that I will not get up my expectations with her, I will not think that she likes me or care about me, because I know she doesn’t, I will take what I can get…….but I will never forgive SIS for what she did and said when I was sick,
But this is an opening, maybe I can spend time with Rebecca and Benedicte, and I will love that.
I can put that aside to spend time with the girls.
Big hugs♥
May. 30th, 2014 12:15 pm (UTC)
Sounds good, pippi.

Either I didn't read about what your sis said and did or I don't recall it but I know you have strong feelings about it. I would not suggest that you forget.

As you said, the BD party is an opening and experiencing it as that and spending a lot of time with Rebecca and Benedicte should make for a lovely time.

May. 30th, 2014 01:03 pm (UTC)
Thanks buzzie♥
Send you a PM.
May. 28th, 2014 05:41 pm (UTC)
So glad you are getting out and about! And that IS a shocker. I'd be on my toes, but still - have a good time, yeah? And give Benedicte lots of kisses from us all. Thea, too - wish her a happy birthday from us!

May. 29th, 2014 01:04 pm (UTC)
Thanks Doll, I will be sure to have a great time with the girls and take pictures to spam you with.
Awwwweee thank you, I will♥♥
May. 28th, 2014 06:14 pm (UTC)
Honestly,Families can really be the death of us,because they are called family we are just supposed to put up with their crap,for y our sake honey I really hope everything goes ok at the party x :)
May. 29th, 2014 01:06 pm (UTC)
So true..
I will be sure to have a great time with the girls, and not think anything will go wrong.
May. 28th, 2014 07:48 pm (UTC)
oh that's nice Pippii, I do hope you have a lovely day XxX
May. 29th, 2014 12:38 pm (UTC)
Thank you Susan, I look forward to spending time with all my nieces this weekend.
I´ll be sure to post pictures later;)
May. 28th, 2014 10:51 pm (UTC)
I hope things go well, lovely! It's nice that your sis has invited you, and I truly hope it's the start of her really 'stopping the hating'. Will be thinking of you at the weekend and hoping she stays on her nicest behaviour! *hugs*
May. 29th, 2014 01:13 pm (UTC)
Thanks Honey.
If she does or doesn´t I don´t know yet, but I am sure that I will have a good time with the girls.
I´ll be sure to get pictures to post here ;)
Thank you for your kind thoughts and words♥
May. 29th, 2014 11:14 am (UTC)
I hope things go well for you and that your sister's recent actions are a good sign of what is to come - I can understand being worried and on edge that something might happen, but I'd imagine your sister won't want to do anything that'd ruin parties so it's actually quite a good setting to be around each other in <3
May. 29th, 2014 01:14 pm (UTC)
Thank you so much sweetheart.
I hope that too, and I will do my best to have a great time with the girls and get some good pictures to post here.
May. 29th, 2014 01:31 pm (UTC)
If it's any consolation, we had a similar situation at a recent family party (relatives who had fallen out in the same room as one another) and because there were lots of people around and children and it was a party, it helped everyone be civil and things are more positive between them now - I hope that happens for you, too!
May. 29th, 2014 02:14 pm (UTC)
Thanks for telling me darling.
I´ll spend my time with the kids, and then see how SIS reacts..
May. 30th, 2014 04:23 am (UTC)
Uh oh, that does sound a bit suspicious... I hope it's not and your sister will behave herself and you'll have a lovely day but I completely understand why you're a bit worried. *hugs*
May. 30th, 2014 01:04 pm (UTC)
Me too...
But I´ll do my best, go to the party tomorrow, and try to have a great time with the girls. They are what matters to me.
May. 30th, 2014 08:52 am (UTC)
*hugs you*

Hope everything will be fine.
May. 30th, 2014 01:05 pm (UTC)
Thank you Dear.
Me too..

cute icon♥
May. 30th, 2014 10:07 am (UTC)
I'm so glad to hear your sister seems to be willing to put the past behind her. I hope the parties go well! *hugs*
May. 30th, 2014 01:06 pm (UTC)
Thanks hon,
I will do my best to have a good time with the girls. They are the ones that matters here.
I promise you pictures;)

May. 31st, 2014 08:42 pm (UTC)
Oh! I so hope it'll go well. Your bro has done a good thing here, I wish that your sis will follow through. Evict the hate, let in the love ( I know, cliché!)

I do hope it all turns out well.

Biggest hugs/Birgitta
Jun. 25th, 2014 09:02 am (UTC)
That feels so very familiar. I hope it all went well, darling *hugs* I'm just catching up with your posts :)

I'm back, btw :D Just got in yesterday and I have tons of work right now at the office, but a few minutes need to be :) *hugs* I missed you!!
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