I have just now....the thing is, Mums pug Nanna, has one bad eye and one good eye as most of you know. Now her good eye has been infected and Mum had to take her to the vet. She arranged that Crazy!Aunts boyfriend would take her there. And I called my Bro, to fetch her after...He agreed to that so I went and walked Balder, and Mum called to say that Nanna has to have her eye operated in Århus, or she could loose it.
(It is 117 km from Aalborg.) At this time Mum is really out of it, so I tell her to call Bro to drive her and I will take Balder until tomorrow. Few minutes later Mum calls in tears, Bro do not want to drive her - his excuse is that he has promised the girls and SIL that they will have dinner in IKEA.
I sort of flipped after the phonecall, and went and rang the doorbell with the people I knew had a car, no one answered.
Then Mum called and told me that she had an appointment at the vets in Århus tomorrow at 11, and that Crazy!Aunts boyfriend would drive her.
BRO called me, and he said that he didn´t understand that Mum would keep Nanna, but he would pick up Mum and Nanna and get them home.
I told him to play nice and that I kept Balder...
So now here I am ,in tears because I cannot do anything to help Mum, have a Bro that I really want to kill for not being there for his Mum, and still afraid to tell him my mind, because then I will not be able to see Sarah and Thea until they are 30......