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I´ve had been a proper mess since Saturday afternoon...

No way around but through…

I have to admit…I have two Facebook profiles…
The Pippin Sækker one that I keep for you, my friends, and another one in my name, for “family and friends.”
It is the last one this is all about….




It is Mum, Sarah, Bro, cousins and Danish friends there – the amount is 20...
As for the posts I make on the other FB, it is pics of the girls, small snippets of what is going on, sober things for families.
As you know, SIS is NOT a friend on FB...
I was/am however friends with my Ex-Bro-In –Law, Ex-Bro-In –Laws-New-Wife, and Ex-Bro-In –Laws-mother.
Then Saturday shit hits the fan…. Ex-Bro-In –Law send me a PM on FB…Telling me, “that out of respect for his ex-wife (SIS) he would cancel our friendship on FB…I then wrote back to him, that I was sorry he felt that respect for my SIS that she did not get that respect from me. But if that was what he wanted, so be it.

I then made a post that said, that my Ex-Bro had cancelled our friendship, and that my Sis had once again manipulated him. The post was up for 10/15 minutes, and then shit hit the fan...
I got one comment from Ex-Bro-In –Laws-mother, that she was here, and one from Bro that he was here..
Then I got a phonecall from Mum…not nice. Turned out that my cousin Mads felt the need to tell SIS what I had posted…
So now SIS was on the phone to Mum screaming her ear off for 15 minutes…that I was out of line, that she had complained to FB about me, and that she had a solicitor on me, getting me to court, on name-calling and injuries...
Mum asked that I took down the post so maybe SIS would cool down. I took it down and Mum called SIS… bur she was still in killing mood, nothing had changed. She called me all the names in the book, and went on to talk about police and court.
At that time I had talked to Bro to explain (he had gotten a similar mail from Ex-Bro).
Bro called Mum and asked if he needed to rip SIS a new one. Mum said no and that was that day.

Sunday I made a cake and went to Mums for coffee. There I learned that SIS had sent a bunch of personal mail between her and Ex-Bro, to her, Bro and a load of other people. The idea was that they should tell SIS that I was a liar and traitor, and that she and Ex-Bro got along well.
As you know they DO NOT!!!!
Bro read it and said that the some passages had been cut from the mails, so that was not to be trusted.
SIS had then called Mum to complain about Ex-Bro and that the girls were afraid to be with him and did not want to stay with him when he was home.
I told Mum not to answer the phone when she called and Bro said the same to her.
We talked about the situation a little and when I got home I send my cousin a mail, asking if it was him that told SIS about the post...It was. He is friend with SIS and thought she should know what I said about her.
What a mess…he knows what SIS have said and done to me and my parents when I got cancer, and why we do not talk to each other. He just pretended he didn´t.
Sunday evening I had a panic attack and called Mum and she came to my rescue. We had the dinner I’d made and talked for a couple of hours... about fun stuff…

Monday Mum and I went present shopping and then went for coffee. We had a nice SIS free day.

The next days went rather well but as I haven’t heard from FB, the police or a solicitor yet, so I don´t really know where things are now. My FB still works so..????




Thursday the girls arrived for a sleep over, and they took our minds of SIS and her hypocrisy.

We had a Barbie Wedding with lovely pictures that I will post soon….

Comments

pippii
Oct. 22nd, 2013 01:41 pm (UTC)
When you one day get to visit Mum and me, it will be awesome. We will have so much fun with the girls and you will get a chance to tell SIS how you feel about her...Your idea sounds great;)
I love you so much P and I miss you...but as I hope you feel about me, I know that you are always here♥♥

Hugs have been given.
♥Love you♥

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