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I´ve had been a proper mess since Saturday afternoon...

No way around but through…

I have to admit…I have two Facebook profiles…
The Pippin Sækker one that I keep for you, my friends, and another one in my name, for “family and friends.”
It is the last one this is all about….

It is Mum, Sarah, Bro, cousins and Danish friends there – the amount is 20...
As for the posts I make on the other FB, it is pics of the girls, small snippets of what is going on, sober things for families.
As you know, SIS is NOT a friend on FB...
I was/am however friends with my Ex-Bro-In –Law, Ex-Bro-In –Laws-New-Wife, and Ex-Bro-In –Laws-mother.
Then Saturday shit hits the fan…. Ex-Bro-In –Law send me a PM on FB…Telling me, “that out of respect for his ex-wife (SIS) he would cancel our friendship on FB…I then wrote back to him, that I was sorry he felt that respect for my SIS that she did not get that respect from me. But if that was what he wanted, so be it.

I then made a post that said, that my Ex-Bro had cancelled our friendship, and that my Sis had once again manipulated him. The post was up for 10/15 minutes, and then shit hit the fan...
I got one comment from Ex-Bro-In –Laws-mother, that she was here, and one from Bro that he was here..
Then I got a phonecall from Mum…not nice. Turned out that my cousin Mads felt the need to tell SIS what I had posted…
So now SIS was on the phone to Mum screaming her ear off for 15 minutes…that I was out of line, that she had complained to FB about me, and that she had a solicitor on me, getting me to court, on name-calling and injuries...
Mum asked that I took down the post so maybe SIS would cool down. I took it down and Mum called SIS… bur she was still in killing mood, nothing had changed. She called me all the names in the book, and went on to talk about police and court.
At that time I had talked to Bro to explain (he had gotten a similar mail from Ex-Bro).
Bro called Mum and asked if he needed to rip SIS a new one. Mum said no and that was that day.

Sunday I made a cake and went to Mums for coffee. There I learned that SIS had sent a bunch of personal mail between her and Ex-Bro, to her, Bro and a load of other people. The idea was that they should tell SIS that I was a liar and traitor, and that she and Ex-Bro got along well.
As you know they DO NOT!!!!
Bro read it and said that the some passages had been cut from the mails, so that was not to be trusted.
SIS had then called Mum to complain about Ex-Bro and that the girls were afraid to be with him and did not want to stay with him when he was home.
I told Mum not to answer the phone when she called and Bro said the same to her.
We talked about the situation a little and when I got home I send my cousin a mail, asking if it was him that told SIS about the post...It was. He is friend with SIS and thought she should know what I said about her.
What a mess…he knows what SIS have said and done to me and my parents when I got cancer, and why we do not talk to each other. He just pretended he didn´t.
Sunday evening I had a panic attack and called Mum and she came to my rescue. We had the dinner I’d made and talked for a couple of hours... about fun stuff…

Monday Mum and I went present shopping and then went for coffee. We had a nice SIS free day.

The next days went rather well but as I haven’t heard from FB, the police or a solicitor yet, so I don´t really know where things are now. My FB still works so..????

Thursday the girls arrived for a sleep over, and they took our minds of SIS and her hypocrisy.

We had a Barbie Wedding with lovely pictures that I will post soon….


( 11 comments — Leave a comment )
Oct. 19th, 2013 11:11 pm (UTC)
Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry that your sis is so horrible. She is just an attention seeking nightmare. I'm sorry her nonsense has caused you so much worry though, and hope she cools down soon. *big hugs*
Oct. 22nd, 2013 01:29 pm (UTC)
Thank you Honey...Mum and I call her an "Energy Vampire", as she sucks all the energy out of you.
And she is the worlds biggest attention whore....
I haven´t heard anything by now, so I hope it was just a cheap thread.
♥Hugs and kisses♥
Oct. 20th, 2013 06:00 am (UTC)
Sweetie, no one can hurt you like family, huh?

*hugs you hard*
Oct. 22nd, 2013 01:32 pm (UTC)
SO true..Happy for me I do not care about her. But she hurts Mum when she will not let the girls see Mum, because they could see me there..
Hugs and Love♥
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Oct. 22nd, 2013 01:41 pm (UTC)
When you one day get to visit Mum and me, it will be awesome. We will have so much fun with the girls and you will get a chance to tell SIS how you feel about her...Your idea sounds great;)
I love you so much P and I miss you...but as I hope you feel about me, I know that you are always here♥♥

Hugs have been given.
♥Love you♥
Oct. 20th, 2013 02:32 pm (UTC)
That's one of the reasons I'm very happy I have no contact to my sister for the last 12 years. *sighs happily*

I'm sorry that your sister is such a bitch and I wish I could someting for you right now *hugs*

Maybe my icon is somekind of explanation for most of her behaviour?
Oct. 22nd, 2013 01:36 pm (UTC)
I get you darling, I really do..
The past 6 years my contact with SIS has been through her girls and one funeral....
She is such an attention seeking whore/bitch...and I am so much better now.
Your icon is awesome♥
Hugs and love♥

(gonna send you an email soon)
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Oct. 22nd, 2013 01:33 pm (UTC)
Thanks Sweetheart...
just by being here, you help Mum and me a lot♥
Oct. 21st, 2013 04:47 pm (UTC)
Don't worry about FB too much! We had to notify FB a bunch of times because of stuff Andy's dad posted and that was really bad stuff, and nothing happened really. They froze his friends requests and some stuff for a week or something, but mostly it was nothing.

What you posted isn't even anything they consider an offense, I'm sure. You just said what happened. He verbally attacked people and threatened them and nothing was done, so... :D

So sorry you have to deal with that shit and that I wasn't around. I had a cat emergency at my dad's place where I had to go yesterday and had to stay til today. And go back tomorrow. Sooo tired :s

Love you lots darling, take care of yourself *hugs*
Oct. 22nd, 2013 02:09 pm (UTC)
Thank you Sweetheart for your kind words.
Nothing has happened yet and SIS has called Mum several times sinse, and not mentioning it at all.
Thank you for being here though, you of all people know how Sisters can be...

Love you too darling ♥Huggles and Kisses♥♥
Oct. 23rd, 2013 08:48 am (UTC)
ohh yeah :D *hugs*
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