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To start as usual, sorry for not being around as much as I should have.
I´ve read all your posts I promise…
The reason for not writing much is, that I´m in a period where every pain in me gets a little worse.
The most notable for you is, that I can´t write as much as before.
(It will probably show in the postcards I’ll send you, but I do my best to write nicely – it just hurts a lot)
I´ve been to the doctor recently to talk about all that, and he told me to write down, when I feel the pain getting worse, whenever I get one of the “attacks”, where my body shakes uncontrollably, and how I generally feel over the summer. Come August he will see me again and make decisions on what to do…At the same time he will order my yearly Mammogram.

Speaking of Mammograms…
Remember the thing that I, Mum, Sarah and Kerstin burned_phoenix did last year for “Pink Saturday” (Breast cancer foundation) here in Aalborg.
Making and selling our handmade jewellery, crafts, knitting and such, all for the good cause.

Lyserød Lørdag

I signed up this year and contacted the people that arranged it last year….But. This year they are going pro, so you have to pay 135 Euro, just to get a table, and they get to decide what you can sell…Bummer...


But after getting angry for a while, Mum and I decided to ask the guy that runs our Supermarket, if we get a place with him. He is really nice and we have had all our shopping with him for years and years now, so he knows us…
I´ve also been in contact with some people that are making a Zumba Marathon, and they will let us in to sell our things there. So we will be there this year too..just a little more difficult.;)



My- Sis-That-Hates-Me!
To summarise: My-Sis-That-Hates-Me ( MSTHM) cheated on her husband a few years ago, that resulting in a divorce. Making MS rather pleased that when her Ex, was a captain and spend half the year on a tanker, she had their kids – the adopted ones, Rebecca and Benedicte - .
They EX-Brother-In-Law (BIL) met a girl in Venezuela on one of his trips. They fell in love and she wanted to move to Denmark with her two kids….


MS- ALARM….she went totally spastic. Accused BIL for everything under the sun, apart for molesting her and the girls.
It was really ugly…and poor Mum was in the middle of it as MS called her night and day to scream and shout about BIL and how he mistreated the girls that they were afraid of him and didn´t want to be with him...
BIL called Mum and came to talk to her, explaining his side of the story…the opposite of MS.

Fast Forward to June 15th...
The wedding of BIL and his new bride.


The very same day, MS called Mum and screamed and shouted about it for more than 45 min.
Then she went to the wedding, Rebecca and Benedicte being Bride mates and her being her usual psychopathic.


She has spent the last months calling Mum and slamming BIL and Gf, and then she showed up at their wedding, pretending to be happy for them.

Mum called me after seeing this picture, to ask if I thought MS had murdered the bride on her wedding night, that much she thought MS looked like a crazy psychopath.

So can you point out the psycopath?

Just to avoid any mistakes, Mum and I was not at the wedding....so the pictures are just evidence from MS and BIL Facebooks....

I think this is part one of the SAGA..more soon..my Crazy!Aunt, driving Mum crazy….


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Jun. 19th, 2013 06:45 pm (UTC)
I'm sorry you're feeling so bad, I bet the crazy weather doesn't help. I really hope it gets better soon. Hang in there.
Jun. 20th, 2013 11:55 am (UTC)
Thanks darling, no unfortunately, the warmer the weather gets the worse I get..
My arm swells even more when it is warm.
Jun. 19th, 2013 07:09 pm (UTC)
Awww hunni hope your feeling better soon,It's a nice story about your bro in law.little weird to have the ex at the wedding though lol x :)
Jun. 20th, 2013 12:52 pm (UTC)
Thanks so much darling♥
Yeah, I think that BIL would not have a chance to have Rebecca and Benedicte at the wedding without.
SIS would have made hell for him, so she and her bf got invited...
Jun. 19th, 2013 07:15 pm (UTC)
I just don't understand your sister at all!

There are quite a few times I really feel like yelling at my ex, but I always weigh the consequenses from picking a fight up against the burden of "letting it go." And if I see that swallowing a few camels and keeping shut is the better solution for my daughter (because she will ALWAYS feel loyal to us both) then I keep my mouth shut. So maybe I'm annoyed a lot and doesn't bother stand up for myself, but I'd rather do that than giving daughter a future where she will think back on her childhood and think that her parents couldn't cooperate.

I have started to be better thinking like that "what do I want daughter to remember when she thinks back," and that has made me better at doing the right choices.
Jun. 20th, 2013 12:57 pm (UTC)
Neither do I honey.

Yes, the way you are handling things is the way to do it for normal people.
But not SIS; she calls and complains to Mum all the time, and she drags the girls into it, to turn them against their dad.
The girls are wonderful, but sometime I wish they didn´t got adopted. SIS does not decerve them at all..
Mum and I often talk about how those girls are going to need tons of therapy, when they get older.

♥Stor krammer♥
Jun. 19th, 2013 09:06 pm (UTC)
the ex husband look very nice and happy with his new wife. I hope that you will be fast better for the summer. I finish soon your gifts i think that you will be happy to receive them.

Jun. 20th, 2013 12:59 pm (UTC)
I think they are really happy.
Thank you Love, I hope so too.
Awwww you are so sweet, I know I will happy to recieve the gifts.
♥Love you♥
Jun. 20th, 2013 02:48 am (UTC)
I'm sorry to hear you haven't been feeling too good lately hun I hope you feel better soon xXx</p>

I think that's crazy. €135 to set up a stall and only allowed to sell items after approval. I hope the other option works out well for you.

I don't understand your sister at all. she was very lucky to have someone like BIL. He looks very friendly, as do all of your family. I think she just needs to realize what she had and that she messed it up big time.

I'm sorry if parts of this don't make sense as I'm trying to work from memory.

I hope you feel better soon,
Love From,

Jun. 20th, 2013 01:17 pm (UTC)
Thank you Hun, yeah you know how it is..( I do read all your posts even if I don´t comment on all of them)

The money thing is so crazy. We do it for charity, not to keep the money ourself, and then they want money for it...

"I think she just needs to realize what she had and that she messed it up big time"
That is just the thing here..she cheated on him for more than 6 month before telling she wanted a divorce.
Now he is happy again, and she can´t handle that...everything in the world has to be about her, so when someone get something she hasn´t she goes crazy...

And your opinion was very clear;)
Big hugs and kisses♥♥
Love you

(I´ve send a parcel to you, with the presents for Jay, Joey and Chantelle and a little something for you..I promise you´ll get a proper letter soon)
Jun. 20th, 2013 04:38 am (UTC)
I hope you'll be feeling better soon *hugs*

And OMG, she *does* look creepy - not to mention that it is really weird that she went to the wedding when she apparently hates her ex so much... At least she didn't make a scene and ruined their special day, right?
Jun. 20th, 2013 01:08 pm (UTC)
Thank you darling♥

She does right? she would not let Rebecca and Benedicte attend the wedding without her and her bf.
Yes she hates him so much, and the fun thing is, that she was the one that cheated on him for more than 6 months, before telling him she wanted a divorce. But now he is happy and married again, and she can´t handle that. That he has something she doesn´t.
No she didn´t make a scene thank god...

Jun. 20th, 2013 04:55 am (UTC)
hello my beautiful.

i know i havent been in contact with you for a long, long while. but that doesn't mean i dont think of you. my mom was looking through a mag and came across something that made her think of you as well. i ended up moving more then once over the past 4 years and as you can assume left me without your address. please send it to me through facebook (i hope you check this site often because i only came on here to specifically find you, i never write anymore). i would love to send you a little something and hopefully continue sending things in the future :)

much love.
Jun. 20th, 2013 01:08 pm (UTC)
Jun. 20th, 2013 11:40 am (UTC)
Oh, my Kastanje Honey, I'm really sorry to know that you're not feeling taht well and especially to know that you're hurting so much. I hope your doctor will be able to find something in August to help you with that.

I'm glad to know that your BL is now with another wife and I really hope that he'll be happy. The girls are just adorable! Let's them all be happy together!
Jun. 20th, 2013 01:21 pm (UTC)
Thanks Sweetie, you are so lovely and nice to me.
I hope you are better by now, I´m getting a bit more used to the pains and the problems they bring..taking it slow;)

I think they are happy and the girls are happy for them too. Problem is, that SIS is unable to care about anyone but herself.

♥hugs and Love♥
Jun. 20th, 2013 02:59 pm (UTC)
You mean the one who is wearing something red?
I think she is a clever psycopath because on red things you can't see blood spots....

I have such a sister too!
It's no wonder I haven't talked to her since my mom died, right?
Jun. 23rd, 2013 02:36 pm (UTC)
I´m so sorry, that you feeling so bad. I hope you get better very soon!! *hugs you carefully*
BIL looks happy with his new wife and that`s all what matters.
Yep, I can can clearly see the psyco! ;)
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