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and as we never get a break here.....

Today I went to the hospital with Mum.
She has been having stomach pains the past 6 month, so her doctor wanted her checked out.
Gastroscopy and colonoscopy.
The result...

Mum has colon cancer…………..

We talked to a really nice doctor that spoke about surgery, and Mum is going for a scan on Monday, and next Thursday we will have a talk with the doctor and other staff, to hear how the process will be.
The doctor talked about surgery, and if anyone else have had it. Mums dad died from stomach- and colon cancer in 1984...but no one else have had it.

Mum is kind of numb and blank right now…and I did what I always do; made the door smack on my feelings so I can be strong for Mum.
Not healthy but that is the only way I can do it.

I know I have no right to ask anything from you, but if you would make a comment for Mum here, I will print them for her and I know that it will mean so much to her. You guys are her family as you are mine…

♥love you♥


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Aug. 16th, 2012 01:31 pm (UTC)
Ohhh my goodness sweetie! I will be praying for you and your mom every night to make sure she has a safe surgery if she decides to go that route and that she recovers quickly.

Big hugs to both of you especially you darling for being so strong! If there is anything I can do please let me know. ♥
Aug. 16th, 2012 01:41 pm (UTC)
Thanks Baby-Girl...

Thank you for your prayers that will mean so much to Mum.
It will be hard, but Mum and I have the privilige of caring friends here, that will make it easier.

If you could maybe write a small comment for Mum, she would be so happy..she knows about you. You are the one in love with Michael Phelpes, and she cheered for him at the Olympics....

♥big hugs and kisses♥
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Aug. 16th, 2012 01:33 pm (UTC)
Hi, hon, I´m very sorry to hear this, for both of you but of course, esp. for your mom. Such devastating news. I´ll keep my fingers crossed for your mom and will be thinking of her that things aren´t as worse as they sound and that the doctors can help your mom successfully.

Sending you all my thoughts *hugs*
Aug. 16th, 2012 01:43 pm (UTC)
Thank you so much darling.
All thoughts and fingers crossed will be a great help for her.
Thank you for being here darling.
Hugs and love♥
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Aug. 16th, 2012 02:04 pm (UTC)
My prayers are with you and your whole family with enough good will and good vibes sent your way I'm certain your mum can beat this nasty monster,Hugs you all really tight xxxxx
Aug. 16th, 2012 02:20 pm (UTC)
Thank you Lisa♥
I am so glad that you care about Mum and me, it means so much tu us.
♥hugs back♥
Aug. 16th, 2012 02:12 pm (UTC)
I already commented on FB but I need to comment here too.
I'm so sorry for you and your mum, really.

I'm sure it is hard and it's something you didn't need in your life. Please, focus on your inner strenght and keep the faith alive, because I'm sure they will do their best and they will succeed to help you to go through this.
We are with you and Annette, we think about you and pray for you <3
Aug. 16th, 2012 02:23 pm (UTC)
Thank you so much my Sunshine♥
I will du all I can to be there for Mum and be strong and put her before anything else.
Having you here, caring and loving, will make it easier.
Thank you for your prayers and love Sunshine♥
♥Love you♥
Aug. 16th, 2012 02:22 pm (UTC)
Oh my God, no... Jesus, I am so, so sorry for all of you. Like your sickness and your sick sister and all the things in between are not enough. I honestly don't even know what to say. I'll keep you both in my thoughts and I pray that the surgery goes well.

Dear Gitte, please, stay strong and fight like a girl. Like your amazing daughter.

Damn, just yesterday, I've sent you a letter, Annette, it will sound silly now.

*hugs you both*
Aug. 16th, 2012 03:31 pm (UTC)
Thank you darling. No one expected it, we both thouhgt it was a stomach ulcer..
Thank you for caring and for your prayers, and the note for Mum.

Don´t think your letter will be silly, everything from you is appreciated from all of you♥

♥Hugs and Love♥
Aug. 16th, 2012 02:26 pm (UTC)
Ohhh no...
OMG, hon.
This is so hard for you both.
I pray for you guys and I hope (no, I KNOW!) that you both will find the strength to go through this.
As people say: "If you´re going through hell, keep the f**** going!"

Well, surgery is a good chance to beat this.
The trick is, i guess, not to loose faith and believe you can solve this.

“May God grant you always...A sunbeam to warm you, a moonbeam to charm you, a sheltering Angel so nothing can harm you. Laughter to cheer you. Faithful friends near you. And whenever you pray, Heaven to hear you.”

*HUGs from Germany!!!!*
Aug. 17th, 2012 09:26 am (UTC)
Re: Ohhh no...
Thank you darling, for your prayers and kind words.

They mean a lot to both of us..

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Aug. 16th, 2012 02:33 pm (UTC)
Oh my goodness Annette.. I'm so sorry to heard this hon... Tell your Mum I'll be praying for her and for you each day... I wish the best for her and for you my darling.. **hug hug hug hug hug hug**

For Annette's Mum:

Hey my dear, I don't know if you believe in God or not, but I believe and I know he does good things for good people. So I'm asking him to do the best for you and your family, right? Because you're a such great, wonderful person. You and your daughter. I also know that Lord puts wonderful people in our path. Lord (and Supernatural, I know *-*) put your daughter on my life, and I'm very grateful every day for this. You have raised a great person, amazing, loving and I love her very much. And with her ​​love and all of us, you will go through all this. I believe that.
A loving Brazilian hug.

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Aug. 17th, 2012 09:27 am (UTC)
Thank you Polly this means so muchto both of us.
You are a sweet and kind friend.

♥big hugs♥
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Aug. 17th, 2012 09:28 am (UTC)
Hey Sweetheart,
Thank your for praying and for being here for us.
You are a wonderful friend.
♥love you♥
Aug. 16th, 2012 02:46 pm (UTC)
Oh Jesus, I am so sorry to hear this. *deep breaths*

You are both strong women, you and your mother. You will fight this and win!

To your mom: All my prayers go out for you! There has to happen something positive in this weird year, and I pray that this positive thing will be you and that you're healing and beating this illness! ♥
Aug. 17th, 2012 01:25 pm (UTC)
Hey sweetheart♥
Thank you for being here for us, that means so much to us
Thanks for your kind words.
Aug. 16th, 2012 02:53 pm (UTC)
And now to you, sweetheart. I know how strong you are and I also understand the need to shut down from your emotions. But please... when you are alone, let go and cry, you hear me? You need to take care of yourself to stay as healthy and strong as you're able to. And this also means, to allow yourself to break down and cry. Maybe you can talk to your doctor as well? Maybe you need some ant-anxiety pills, maybe something homeopathic, maybe something stronger. Take it! I know you already take lots of meds but still... please talk to your doctor as well. This is an emergency situation. Sending you love and healing vibes for your mom and for you as well.
Aug. 17th, 2012 01:29 pm (UTC)
Thank you for your concern sweetheart.
The way of blocking my feelings out is a hard way to deal with stuff. But it is the only thing I can do, it is not even a concious decission, it just happens.
That doesn´t mean that I don´t have feelings or care, because I do, it is just when I am with Mum I have to be the strong one for her, because if I fall apart, she does too...I did the same when I got cancer, to be stron for Mum and Dad.
Thank you so much for caring and your kind words and your love and healing vibes, they mean the world to both of us.
♥love you♥
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Aug. 17th, 2012 01:33 pm (UTC)
Ohhh Pam thank you for being here.
Your kind words and love makes everything so much better for us, especially when I know what you are going through now.
♥Love you Pam♥
Aug. 16th, 2012 03:28 pm (UTC)
Dear Annette and mom, please know that my thoughts and heart are with you both, and knowing you are both strong women makes me know that you will fight this together, with us here in the background to love and support you as best we can

*Huge hugs and love to you both*
Aug. 17th, 2012 01:36 pm (UTC)
Your support and kind words means so much to both of us Susan.
Thank you for being here for us.

♥hugs and love to you too♥
Aug. 16th, 2012 03:52 pm (UTC)
Oh god, sweetie, I am so, so sorry for both you and your mum. I can't believe how much has happened to you and your family, and to have this on top of everything else is horrible. *extra tight hugs*
If there is anything I can do for either of you, please let me know.

To your mum:
Gitte, I'm so sorry to hear your awful news. Please stay strong and know you have many, many friends in many places who genuinely care about you and are sending you strength and good thoughts. I will be thinking of you. *hugs*
Aug. 17th, 2012 01:38 pm (UTC)
Your kind words here makes me feel better ♥
The support and kindness towards Mum is so lovely and it helps us both.
Thank you honey♥
Aug. 16th, 2012 04:27 pm (UTC)
((Big Hugs)) for both you and you Mom!

Please know that you and your Mom will be in my thoughts and my prayers!

Aug. 17th, 2012 09:38 am (UTC)
Thank you for your prayers and kindness, that means the world to us both.

♥big hugs♥
Aug. 16th, 2012 04:28 pm (UTC)
Oh, no!

I think you family had enough of all of this already!

Dear Gitte,
I don't know how you feel right now but I can imagine you must be afraid and shocked.
But you have to know that you can survive this. You can be strong as your amazing daughter and you can fight this.
I know you can!
I keep you in my prayer...
Aug. 17th, 2012 01:40 pm (UTC)
Hey hon, yeah I thought so too, but some people never gets a break right?
Thank you so much for your sweet and kind words to Mum, they means so much to us.
♥Hugs and kisses♥
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