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(For Sarah`s party, see my previous post)

Tomorrow I have my doctors appointment with my own doctor Kristiansen… Right now I don’t know what to say actually, as I haven’t had an “attack” since the big one last Tuesday…nothing, not even a feeling of one coming…but I’ll try to explain as best I can, and hope that he might have an idea…

Tuesday I have my six month Cancer check up at the hospital. It is at 1.30 pm and I am really calm this time…I am not nervous as the last time with the Mammograms and stuff…but as soon as I get back from the hospital Tuesday I’ll tell you how it went;)

My Stupid sister;
As a lot of you know I have this sister that despises and hates me, and envy me that I got Breast cancer in 2007, as I “got attention” for that and she didn’t.
Since then she had trawled hospitals for a life threatening diagnosis….none has been found, much to her annoyance but she is healthy..
But her newest idea was presented for me at Sarah’s party today.
She had a test taken indicating that she might get cancer sometime in the future, based on the genetics in the family.. What she told me was that “ The hospital wants to remove her uterus and both her breasts as she might get cancer someday”.
She handed me a letter from one of the University Hospitals here in Denmark. She wanted me to give them permission to read my hospital journal and go through tissue tests and blood tests associated with my Breast Cancer.
I told her there were no idea for her to take a genetic test as no one in our family on the female side have had cancer before me, and my breast cancer was a variety that was very rare and special.
(Consider this for a second; if eyes could kill I would be in a coffin now)
The thing with the tests are that if my Grandmother, Mum, Aunt and I all got BC, she might be at risk…..but no one except me ever got it…and she hates that.
I am not giving permission to anything!

The night between yesterday and today, my downstairs neighbour was robbed.
There has been some robberies the past months in the flats here, the first time in the 24 years I have lived in my flat.
But today as I went out to go to the birthday, I saw the front door downstairs was open( Britta that lives there sometimes leaves the door open if she is on her way out, so I thought nothing of it)
When I got outside some people was standing outside talking about people coming out of the locked front door at 9.15pm, and that Brittas balcony door was open..as no one had checked to see if she was there or if she was ok, it was up to me to enter her flat, just armed with birthday presents and my faithful “Chris Cane”…so I checked and there were no one home. Calling her I explained what was going on, and told her to come home and call the police.
They had been here when I got home from the B-Day party..turns out the robbers stole some money, jewellery and a car key..but there is a witness, a woman walking her dog at that time and she saw two persons coming out of our front door around 9.15pm..
I am happy that nothing happened this time…but someone breaking in at the flat beneath me, without anyone here feeling or seeing anything. It is annoying and don’t really feel safe, even if I am on the first floor and all the robberies has been downstairs from me…


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Mar. 18th, 2012 05:56 pm (UTC)
I will be thinking of you on Tuesday when you have your check up. I hope everything goes well and you have a clean bill of health. :)

May I ask what is wrong with your sister? Its not like you wanted to get cancer and get sick. I dont think anyone in their right mind is like ohhh let me get cancer so I can get attention from my family. Why on earth is she looking for some disease because if she keeps looking she'll get it (what goes around comes around). Good lord...

Wow that is super scary. I hope nothing else happens in your building. Do be careful!

Mar. 18th, 2012 06:44 pm (UTC)
Thank you so much Sweetheart, I´ll let you know as soon as I get back form the hospital..

You may, but unfortunately I can tell you what is wrong with her...except that she always tried to get all the attention in the family..even when we were kids, she was like that..
You being someone that knows how scary a cancer treath can be, I fully understand you...but as I told Mum in the car home..I actually didn´t call her on her stupidity, the things she reacted to were just plain facts....but she is someone that would make up a leathal decease, in spite of her kids, just to top mu cancer....she is the stupidest person on the Earth I think...

Thank you, we do have guardians and police looking after us here, so I hope they get the robbers soon...

♥Hugs and Love you♥
Mar. 18th, 2012 06:07 pm (UTC)
wow, I think you actually win in the sucky sister department this time, I mean, mine is bad, but yours take the cake here! geez!

that's just unbelievable! so sorry you have to deal with that kind of shit *hugs*

and the break in is scary! last year there was a break in in the house where my mom lives, on the ground floor (my mom is two floors up) but it's still making you worry nontheless.

glad you and everyone else is alright!
Mar. 18th, 2012 06:58 pm (UTC)
I´ve always known that she was jealous but now she had two - thought adopted - kids and she still wants a deadly decease..she is insane..
I talked to Mum in the car home, and she agreed with me..

I got a bit shaken I have to admit..but hope the police will get them soon...

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Mar. 18th, 2012 06:18 pm (UTC)
You know, I´m staring at your post, and I don´t believe my eyes about your sisters stupidity. Hello? She wants to be sick??? God, that makes me sick. Countless people are fighting for their lives because of sicknesses of all kinds and she wishes for something like that, because she wants some attention. That´s full on crazy. Absolutely. *still shaking my head*

The thing about the robbery in the apartment downstairs is scary... I´m happy that nothing happened and I really hope they won´t come back or much better, will be caught. Must be a scary thought for you, too.

Have a good evening, hon and good luck with your doctor´s appointment. I´ll keep my fingers crossed that everything turns out just well *hugs*
Mar. 18th, 2012 07:02 pm (UTC)
I am stunned to I have to admit..she has two - though adopted - kids, and still she wants cancer to get attention...I actually have no words for her behaviour..she is batshit crazy..

I am a bit shaken about the robbery, most the fact that I was at home and didn´t hear anythig...but the police is on it so I hope they get the robbers soon..

Thank you sweetheart, I´ll let you know as soon as I know.

♥hugs and kisses♥
Mar. 18th, 2012 06:40 pm (UTC)
sorry, but your sister is really stupid. :(
Mar. 18th, 2012 06:51 pm (UTC)
You are so right, she rally is..
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Mar. 18th, 2012 06:44 pm (UTC)
Sorry to say this but your sister is ridiculous!

Really. There is nothing more to say to such a behaviour! *shakes head*
I'm very sorry that you have to have such a sister *hugs you tight*

Oh, and BTW: My grandma died on cancer. One of my aunts (my mothers sister) died of breast cancer, two of her sons (my cousin) died of leukaemia, my dad died of liver cancer and my mom died of breast cancer (next year it will be 20 years *sigh*).
As you see: My family has a genetic disposition.
But nobody has ever asked me to take some test and let some of my body parts removed!

I can understand that she may have fear but this? Is still ridiculous!
Mar. 18th, 2012 07:08 pm (UTC)
You are so right honey..someone like you might get a genetic test and get a result.

But my sis just does it to get attention..
Instead of focusing on her two - though adopted - kids and have a nice life with them.

My Mum refused to get into the test too..she get mammograms as she is 62 and the hospital calls her for the tests.
I am the only one ever to get cancer in our family, so there is nothing genetic in it, I am sure.

But she is the type that will do anything for attention...

Mar. 18th, 2012 07:28 pm (UTC)
Good luck with the tests on Tuesday, hopefully whatever caused those 'episodes' have now gone X

Oh dear your sister, what a silly woman, she should be grateful for her good health and lovely children!!!!! No wonder you get frustrated with her!

How worrying for you with the robbery, stay safe my friend and make sure everything is well locked up

*Hugs you tight* XxXxX

Mar. 19th, 2012 05:55 pm (UTC)
Thank you Susan.
I went to the my doctor today, but apart from panic attacks, his only idea was to talk to the doctor tomorrow to hear if they could come up wit anything..but he did his best and I am pleased with the result for noe.
I do hope my check up on the hospital tomorrow goes well too;)

Thank you..*sigh* she is a crazy person that got everything, but then again seeks bad things to get attention...I am afraid there is nothing else to say..

As for the robbery, I heard today that the police have grabbed two guys..I hope that will end it.

♥hugs you back♥
Mar. 18th, 2012 07:36 pm (UTC)
Hey my sweetheart
Sorry for my long hiatus but I am back now!

I sooo do have my fingers crossed for your check up and I sooo will think of you and wait for any news!!!

Your sister does really have a big problem and I would suggest to send her to a psychiatrist she definitely needs help!! Hey maybe then she has something that she gets attention for!! *roll eyes* really this woman is kind of crazy......I am sorry to say so!
And you are so right to not give permission to anything!!!

Ohhh lord. We got robbed once and that is freaking scary! So please take care and be careful!

*sends lots of love*
Mar. 19th, 2012 06:12 pm (UTC)
Hey My Angel, Ive missed youuuuuuuu♥

Thank you, the appointment with the doctor today ended with the panic attacks, that is what they got from it..
I´ll be sure to tell you how things work out at the hospital tomorrow..

My sister *sigh* do not feel sorry for calling her anything..it is the same one that made my parents choose between me and her kids..and told me face to face that she looked forward to the day I died from my cancer...so I really don´t want to help her with anything...

I am lucky and live on the first floor so I am not as risk for now..and the police have grabbed two guys here, so I hope it is over noe...

♥Love you My Angel♥
Mar. 18th, 2012 07:59 pm (UTC)
Well... You do know your sister so -_- I think we just can't say a lot here -_-

Oh! I don't like it that there were robberies in your building -______- Do the police know something about it?
How comed no man wanted to go in the flat instead of you? It would have been dangerous! (Though... If the door was open it should meant they've runned away.

Mar. 21st, 2012 10:52 am (UTC)
You are so right Sweetie, lot of things to be said about her...

It was rather scary when I found out..I asked Brittas neighbour the guy down under me, to go check out the flat, as I was afraid that maybe Britta had been home and they had hurt her. But he wouldn´t (chicken) so I had to do it, to make sure that nothing had happened to her.
The police have picked up two guys, so I hope that´s it. There have never been problems here before so it is scary that it starts now.

♥Big hugs♥
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Mar. 18th, 2012 08:10 pm (UTC)
good luck for your appointment doctor and check up. Sorry for the problems with your sister.

You live in a dangerous street? Love you.
Mar. 21st, 2012 10:55 am (UTC)
Thank you Love, as you know now it went well.
My sister is crazy and just want attention.....

There has never been any problems here before, and I have lived here for 24 years..The police have picked up two guys, so I hope it is over now.

♥Love you♥
Mar. 18th, 2012 10:43 pm (UTC)
Hope your cancer check up goes well - I'll be thinking of you.
Your sister sounds like a nightmare, I cannot understand anyone wanting to be sick for attention, especially when they have seen a family member suffering for real. It's good that you won't give permission to go through your records, it's absolutely ridiculous that she wants that!
And I'm sorry about the robbery, it's totally understandable that you don't feel safe. Let's hope no more happen and you can start to feel secure again.
Mar. 21st, 2012 10:58 am (UTC)
Thanks Honey♥

My sister is the biggest attention whore I know of, she will do anything to get attention. I don´t understand when she has a good life with two kids and her health, that she wants to get sick....I don´t want to be a part of it, so they will not be going through my journal.

The police have picked up two guys now, so I hope it is over, we have never had any kind of problems before...

♥big hugs

Mar. 19th, 2012 07:46 pm (UTC)
Crossing fingers for you tomorrow!

Your sister? I'm sorry, but there are a few screws loose in her head. I don't think I have ever heard a stupider thing in my life. And precautions and tests are all good, but... cutting things off/out on the mere possibility? I'm sorry, but my reply is non-translateable and non-printable. *growls*

Oh dear, that is scary! I hope they catch those people soon!
Mar. 21st, 2012 11:01 am (UTC)
Thanks darling♥

I understand what you want to say about my sis, I say the same things. There is nothing at all that indicates that she will ever get cancer. I am the only one of the women in our family ever that has gotten cancer, so it does not run in the family..but try telling her that!

There has never been any problems here before, and I have lived here for 24 years..The police have picked up two guys, so I hope it is over now.

♥big hugs♥
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Mar. 20th, 2012 03:26 pm (UTC)
Your sister is crazy, seriously crazy!! There can't be another word to describe what she is doing! Sure - I'd have some panic if my sister (if I had one) would've gotten BC - but WTH? It seems like she WANTS to have it - to get "this attention"... Seriously? She should see a doctor for mental therapy. Sorry for the harsh words...

Mar. 21st, 2012 11:04 am (UTC)
Hey darling, don´t be sorry for what you say about my sister because you are so right. She is an attention whore that will do anything to get the attention.
There are no cancer in our family on the female side before me, so she is not at risk at all...
She actually went to a therapist years ago andshe told her she could not help her before she stopped that obsessive behaviour;) So she is a crazy lost cause...

♥Love you honey♥
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