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30 DAY MEME - DAY 27

Day 27 — This month, in great detail

Hmmm..this month is about two weeks right….and how to explain that in great detail…

I think I’ll do it this way..

Once again I have to say that I have the best friends in the world. It is not my RL friends, but you guys all of you…
I have gotten wonderful presents from you, both late birthday presents, and presents and letters, just to make me happy.
I have gotten lovely comments on my posts here both on the meme and other posts.

But more than that, I have been showered with comments and questions about my Mum, Balder, Sarah and myself.
This is not only casual comments because you have to! This is because you are great friends and family and care about what is going on with not only me, but my family too, all the way down to questions about my ”Bosnian family”…
If I ever was to get one wish, it was that could meet all of you….

I gotten defriended this month..but it was by someone that I didn’t even know was on my flist so…..

Some of you will remember my 3 RL friends, Anni, Bente and Berit…the 3 women I went to school with, when we all got through Care Helper education. As you know, I got a cancer diagnose three weeks after final exam, but they kept a hold on me..so Sunday 3rd we all met at Annis place and had a wonderful time.
Bente and her husband have their Silver Wedding tomorrow (Wednesday 13th), so we are going to see them with some flowers. We have all gotten an invitation for a party in August.
If I have to be true to myself I have to say that I never expected them to hold on to me..but they did..so apart from my two closest friends that died 15 years ago, they are the best friends I’ve ever had.

Well I’ve had Sarah here for a week and it seems like you all liked my week with Sarah;)

For those of you who missed it;)

Thank you for all your concern for my Mum and for Balder, it means a lot to all of us.
Mum and I spend a lot of time together, that being in the Garden or eating dinner together and watching British Crime Shows on TV.(Dalziel and Pascoe is a big fave right now as it is on TV every evening)

We do it more often now, and talk about Dad and how we both still need to grief him..in three weeks he has been dead for a year…


First I have my daily clicking to help in a lot of ways that are free..



The second thing I have here is a very delicate thing I think, I am afraid that it might get some of my flist to defriend me…
It concern Fandom’s….I have followed the interaction on Twitter and LJ the past weeks, mostly concerning dean_sam
I have written a post about my feelings on the subject, but I am not sure weather to post it or not…I don’t think it is so bad as it is my POV. Sooo what do you think?

I know I have some birthdays coming up, but I promise that presents will be on its way within the next days..and as for letters screamoutloud and shaunk00, I will write you ASAP..

Well to be true this is my exiting Month..if there is anything you want to know, ask me;)

Day 28 — This year, in great detail
Day 29 — Hopes, dreams and plans for the next 365 days
Day 30 — Whatever tickles your fancy


( 13 comments — Leave a comment )
Jul. 12th, 2011 04:37 pm (UTC)
I can't believe it's already 27th posts of this meme. Time really does fly, don't it?

Sounds like you have some really good friends here. I'm afraid it doesn't happen often.

As for the 'delicate thing' - I'm curious of what you think, but I won't tell you to go ahead and do it. These things are dangerous, especially in our fandom. I don't want you to get hurt by some idiot. ;)
Jul. 13th, 2011 08:17 am (UTC)
Time does fly...
I don´t know what I have done to get friends like you but I truly value all of you♥
Hmmm....I think I´ll make the post and then see if anyone defriends me. If they do, they probably would have done it sooner or later anyway.
Jul. 12th, 2011 10:00 pm (UTC)
This is a nice view of your current month :).

Congratulations to great friends both here and in RL, you deserve all of them.

As for defriending...if you didn't really know that person and they didn't give you a reason, you're probably better off without. I know you get a message when a person friends or defriends you, but I still think it's polite to just drop them a comment or a message to let them know. But that's just my opinion.

I can't tell you anything about the delicate thing, since I don't know what it's about...as you know, not really my fandom. I always believe in speaking your mind and if people can't accept it and defriend you because of it, than they shouldn't be on your FL anyway. But that's just me. If you feel you might offend someone you actually like, you might want to keep your thought to yourself or just exchange them with someone you trust. Because I don't want you to get hurt by some stupid people.

Jul. 13th, 2011 07:01 am (UTC)
Good postie, honey!! *Squishes you in happy!*

Post away, lovie - I left that comm awhile back because of the batshit...

Jul. 13th, 2011 08:15 am (UTC)
Thank you honey...
I guess you wouldn´t defriend me if I posted;)
Jul. 13th, 2011 08:23 am (UTC)
Hell no!! I would never defriend anyone over an opinion anyhow!!

*Loves you up*
Jul. 13th, 2011 02:19 pm (UTC)
Wow! Feels like you had a really wonderful month full of love as you deserve! ;)
Jul. 13th, 2011 07:58 pm (UTC)
Awww Sweetie thank you so much for your kind and sweet words♥Love you
Jul. 13th, 2011 08:58 pm (UTC)
*hugs* Thank you for the chocolate v-gift, sweetie! Hope things are okay with you too!
Jul. 16th, 2011 12:22 pm (UTC)
♥hugs back♥
You are welcome honey.
I´m good thanks, busy but happy;)
Jul. 14th, 2011 07:27 pm (UTC)
im happy for your friends danemark. for me dean_sam it's finished since two years it's rare when i visit.
Jul. 16th, 2011 12:24 pm (UTC)
Thanks Love♥
Well I like my RL friends very much..but to tell the truth I love my LJ friends, and I tell you things that I wold never tell others.
You commented on my post on fandom, thank you for that..
Jul. 16th, 2011 12:47 pm (UTC)
I love my real friends as my more close friends on my flist as you.cause i know that we can to meet us. And meet my flist it's as that i know if it's a true friendship or not. Cause in real it's different of LJ. Sometimes there isnit of alchimy, complicty. I havent of problem to comment on the fandom it's well for that that i had problems. When one say what one think one attacked. In 2007,2008 i was often on dean_sam,on the fandom and protected those who was attacked, i spoke of my j2 love. I hate when one attack j2 on their life ,their acting. Or when one leave too far on the limit between fans and actors,on the j2 love.
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