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First; Thank you to all of you for making my Mums birthday so wonderful. She loved all the greetings from you and I know that she will write some sort of thank you for me to post here;)

Welcome to my new friend andrea_ze, sorry you get thrown into this..

Family; Remember that my Grandma and aunt moved in November on my other aunts account?? Well Grandma is now at an Old Peoples Home, on respite care.
She is not eating or drinking anything, and not getting out of her bed at all…she have been there for tree weeks and was granted three more weeks..the nurses and care helpers are kind to her, buying all the things she likes to eat and drink, but she doesn’t.
In my opinion and Mums too, as we are qualified care helpers, her moving at the age of 84, being sick, moving to a new home without even wanting to, and the loss of her son - my Dad - in August, causes all this…She had a depression too so I’m sure she has giving up living…..

My sister; She wanted a divorce from my Brother in law, just before Christmas, making a big scene about it and making their kids miserable…turned out, as I got informed from Mum yesterday, that she has a boyfriend in Copenhagen…and that has been going on for a long time….so she is unfaithful to her husband, lying to her husband, her kids and my Mum…and thinks that the kids just accept the situation and yesterday tells Mum how miserable it is to have a husband she never sees (as he sails) and a boyfriend, she never sees (as he is in Copenhagen)…
Mum looked after the kids yesterday and I spend a couple of hours with Rebecca and Benedicte and they are amazing girls…really lovely, and I think they deserves much more out of life than my sister (being adopted from China)

Mum; She has gotten a new apartment, tree doors from me and somewhat smaller than the one she has now. But she can afford it and will stay in the neighbourhood.
She has been cleaning out a lot of things now, so now we’ll start packing down the thinks that shall be moved.
Things are easier now, she know where to move and that it is March 1st. That is the due date.

Me;…I’m still here. I get worse a little at the time, today I had an incident with my hands that I never had before. So I feel the little changes when they come…to be honest I spend all my energy on Mum, so I really don’t have time for me. I think that is how I survive now; caring for Mum and doing my best at "work" - trying the job service and hope they understand that I am unable to work enough to provide for myself.....

Lj friends; you know that if it hasn’t been for you……..remember that I love you and I do my best to keep up on everything.
Ohhh and I have just gotten a load of new materials, so if I owe you a bracelet, please let me know..the same goes for postcards, if I owe you please tell me♥


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Jan. 29th, 2011 06:36 pm (UTC)
Sweez´ty, you need to take care of yourself as well....
Jan. 29th, 2011 06:45 pm (UTC)
I need a vacation....or my disability pension so that I can go visit you some day♥
I´m so glad that I have you here darling♥♥
Love you♥
(no subject) - angieobsessed - Jan. 29th, 2011 11:14 pm (UTC) - Expand
Jan. 29th, 2011 06:45 pm (UTC)
Aww, Annette, you need to look after yourself, as well. You're so generous and you try and look after people and *hugs you*
Jan. 29th, 2011 06:48 pm (UTC)
♥hugs you tight♥
That is how I am, I can´t help it..I want to look after every body before myself..it is easier;)
That is why I am so happy to have you here♥ To look after me♥
♥hugs you back♥
(no subject) - theron09 - Jan. 29th, 2011 07:05 pm (UTC) - Expand
(no subject) - pippii - Jan. 30th, 2011 10:21 am (UTC) - Expand
Jan. 29th, 2011 06:46 pm (UTC)
Jan. 29th, 2011 06:48 pm (UTC)
♥love you honey♥
Jan. 29th, 2011 06:53 pm (UTC)
I admire the way you are able to take care of everyone else.... but you'll have to take care of yourself as well!
Can you believe - I am watching New York Minute right now (On TV3) - it's not worth it - even with (a young) Jared in it.
Jan. 29th, 2011 07:00 pm (UTC)
Thank you honey..
Jeg er så ked af at jeg ikke har svaret på dine poster....jeg vil komme tilbage til dem, det lover jeg.
Jeg prøver at hjælpe andre, så meget jeg kan, jeg er ikke så god til at hjelpe mig selv...
I actually bought that movie when I discoved that Jared was in it......all I can say is..he is sweet, we will forgive him as he moved on to better things♥
Jan. 29th, 2011 07:13 pm (UTC)
While your mom needs help, you need to remember to take care of yourself. *hugs and squishes*
Jan. 30th, 2011 09:53 am (UTC)
I try honey, I´m just not that good at it....but writing the little fics helps me a lot.
♥hugs and kisses♥
Jan. 29th, 2011 07:27 pm (UTC)
im sorry for your grandma.speak at your doctor for your hands what arrived?

Lj friends; you know that if it hasn’t been for you……..

you want to say what exactly?
Jan. 30th, 2011 09:55 am (UTC)
Thank you love...the problem with my hands comes from the side effects of the chemo and radiation therapy I got, so there is not much to do about it.

you want to say what exactly?
That if I didn´t have you guys here to talk to and be freinds with, I would have gone crazy a long time ago. You keep me grounded and help me through everything.
♥love you♥
Jan. 29th, 2011 07:39 pm (UTC)
*hugs ya* xxx
Jan. 30th, 2011 09:26 am (UTC)
♥back at ya hon♥
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Jan. 30th, 2011 10:26 am (UTC)
Thanks honey.
Things will get better, as for my Grandma I can´t really do anything, and my sister, I will not have anything to do with that....

You are so sweet♥ thank you for your kind words, I´ll try to look after myself I promise.
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Jan. 30th, 2011 10:26 am (UTC)
I´ll do my best honey, I promise♥♥
Jan. 29th, 2011 09:49 pm (UTC)
You need to be careful not to take on so much responsibility for everyone else Annette, you must make time for yourself!

*Hugs you*
Jan. 30th, 2011 10:28 am (UTC)
I know Susan, and I try.
I concentrate on my Mum as for my grandma and sister, there is nothing I can do anyway.
♥hugs back♥
Jan. 29th, 2011 10:30 pm (UTC)
*hugs tightly* Sorry to hear about the family issues - but please remember to put yourself first for once too! You need to look after yourself as well! *hugs even tighter*
Jan. 30th, 2011 08:57 pm (UTC)
♥hugs you back♥
I do my best, and I am NOT getting involved with my sister and her mess...
I´ve started making jewellry again, that relaxes me a lot, so that might help..
Jan. 29th, 2011 10:50 pm (UTC)
oh sweetie. I'm glad your mom found a nice new place close to you. you're such an amazing daughter to her!

and I'm sorry to hear that you're getting worse. if there's anything I can do, please just let me know, even if it's just lending an ear :)

don't really know what to say to the situation with your sister. she seems like a really special person :s

hope your grandma will get better, too. you have to deal with so much all the time. I don't know where you get all the energy you need for that *hugs*
Jan. 30th, 2011 09:01 pm (UTC)
Thank you darling♥
It is nice to get Mum so close, I think for both of us.
I know you are here honey, but you have so much yourself right now...
I am NOT gettting involved with my sisters sh*t, She is crazy and I don´t really care anymore...
I hope my Grandma gets better too, but I doubt it, she is in a nice home for now and they are taking good care of her.
Energy??? I think I go on pure adrenalin and coffee these days;)
♥hugs you tight♥
Jan. 30th, 2011 12:35 am (UTC)
My Kastanje Honey♥
I'm sorry about all the problems with your family. I know that you care for your grandmother and for the girls♥
It is good that you're taking care of your mum but, please, take care of yourself too.
Jan. 30th, 2011 09:04 pm (UTC)
Thank you so much Sweetie♥
I promise to do my best and got solved some of the smaller issues now, so that helps...but I need a vacation*-*
♥love you so much♥♥
(no subject) - babydracky - Jan. 31st, 2011 02:56 pm (UTC) - Expand
Jan. 30th, 2011 12:16 pm (UTC)
Hi again, hon.
Wow - that´s quite a lot to juggle at the moment, right?
I see you keep all your balls up in the air, but please - please!- take some time for yourself as well.
We just met (thanks for the welcome,btw) but I´m looking forward to speak to you a lot!!!!

Support -hug.
Jan. 30th, 2011 09:06 pm (UTC)
Hey honey,
well you see, I´m a busy lady;)
I have started on a new round of SPN bracelets, making jewellry makes me relax and concentrate on other things, so if you want one, PM me your name and address and I´ll send you one.
I really look forward to get to know you and speak with you too♥
Jan. 30th, 2011 02:56 pm (UTC)
*hugs you tightly* You need to take care of yourself too! Sounds like you're doing the best you can with everything else. Now do something about yourself, okay?

Thanks for the update!
Jan. 30th, 2011 09:09 pm (UTC)
♥hugs you back♥
You know, I am so good at taking care of others and make them feel better that sometime I forget myself...but I promise to look after myself more.
♥hugs and loves♥
(no subject) - shanachie_quill - Jan. 30th, 2011 09:22 pm (UTC) - Expand
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