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Wednesday was the reduction of my Dads urn, it was at one so we weren’t many people. My Mum, me, my crazy!aunt, my BIL and my niece Rebecca, she was the one that attended the funeral too.
I had made matching Guardian Angels one for my Mum and one to put into the grave along with some flowers. Rebecca had a rose too, to put into the grave.
She looked at the urn then turned to my Mum and asked; how can Granddad fit in there??.. So we tried to explain how it was and that he had pictures of all the girls with him in the coffin and that it got burned so it could fit into an urn.

When it was over and we were leaving I had a dvd for Rebecca and she had letters for Mum and me, I thought it was a drawing she had made, but it was an invitation to her birthday - for me!!! I haven’t been to a birthday the past five years!! But I said yes and thank you;)

Mum and I went back home to her and cleaned out in a lot of books and papers…we need a lot of papers for the probate court on Monday.

Tomorrow I have a meeting with the jobcentre at 10 am, talking to yet another person that are sure I will be able to work 37 hours a week….hmmm, today I could hardly walk down the stairs even with the cane….
But positive attitude on that…

I’m still writing thank you cards, so I’ll get to all of you in time..



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Aug. 19th, 2010 04:31 pm (UTC)
Sounds like a lovely service.

Aug. 19th, 2010 05:18 pm (UTC)
It really was lovely and I´m glad that Rebecca came too..
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Aug. 19th, 2010 05:36 pm (UTC)
Det var en meget dejlig afsked. Om ca 14 dage får vi stenen, så er det hele på plads..
Aug. 19th, 2010 05:27 pm (UTC)
I'm glad that you had a lovely service!

Good luck on the job center!

I am planning a post in my head about that - not you and the job center - but about those expectations, and I'm happy for you're input when I finally post! I just can't stop thinking about what it does to my psyche having to defend myself all the time. I know I have posted about this before, but I have more now.
Aug. 19th, 2010 05:38 pm (UTC)
It was nice and lovely, the best way to say goodbye..

Thank you honey, I´m glad if I can be at any help to you, please ask away if you need it.
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Aug. 19th, 2010 05:40 pm (UTC)
Thanks sweetheart, it was nice and lovely..

Glad to know that the card has arrived, and I promise to take care of Mum and me...
and you promise to take care of yourself, no more knife tricks ok;)
♥love you sweetheart♥
Aug. 19th, 2010 06:33 pm (UTC)
It sounds like the service was lovely, bb.

Good luck at the job centre.

Aug. 20th, 2010 04:35 pm (UTC)
It was nice and quiet and just the way my Dad would have liked it..
Thank you!
Aug. 19th, 2010 06:57 pm (UTC)
What a lovely service! And aww, a birthday party! How old is she?
Aug. 20th, 2010 04:36 pm (UTC)
It really was..
She will be 8 in September, and I haven´t been invited to a party sinse she turned two...

..cute icon;)
Aug. 22nd, 2010 04:26 pm (UTC)
Aw, that's sweet! :-)

my favorite icon at the moment. :-)
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Aug. 20th, 2010 04:37 pm (UTC)
It was honey.

Thank you it went well I think..
Aug. 19th, 2010 09:36 pm (UTC)
I so sorry I haven't been around lately........I feel terrible that i have have missed so much......all my very best wishes to you, your mum and all your family at this sad time x
Aug. 20th, 2010 04:38 pm (UTC)
Don´t be sorry, you have had other things to do..
Thank you so so much sweetheart, it means a lot to me.
♥hugs and kisses♥
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Aug. 20th, 2010 04:39 pm (UTC)
It was a really nice service....

I hope so too, I would like to be able to see the kids more.

Thank you honey, it went well I think.
♥hugs and kisses♥
Aug. 19th, 2010 10:49 pm (UTC)
I am sure the service was what you and your mom wanted and intended as the way to say goodbye to your father...

I surely hope you get the job at the center..

Take care of yourself and your mom...

Clarice : }
Aug. 20th, 2010 04:41 pm (UTC)
Thank you so much sweetheart, it was a nice thing and I think my Dad would have liked it.

It went well at the centre today I think, more later about that;)

♥You too honey
Hugs and kisses♥
Aug. 20th, 2010 03:32 am (UTC)
Hi sweetie! I've been thinking about you lately and have continued praying for you and your family. I hope all is well. *many hugs*

Good luck tomorrow. <3
Aug. 20th, 2010 04:42 pm (UTC)
You are so kind and lovely, thank you so much it means so much to me and my Mum.
Thank you it went well.

♥Hugs and loves♥
Aug. 20th, 2010 08:23 am (UTC)
Aug. 20th, 2010 04:42 pm (UTC)
Aug. 20th, 2010 08:49 am (UTC)
Sounds beautiful hun,hugs all round,good luck at the job centre xx
Aug. 20th, 2010 04:43 pm (UTC)
Thank you Lisa, it was a nice way to say good bye..

It went well today I think.

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