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UPS AND DOWNS AND DOWNS AND DOWNS…..



First of, my Dad is not getting any better…he have stopped eating and drinking again, sleeps all the time and just gets weaker. No amount of yelling or pleading can make him do anything so Mum and I are at our ends now, we have no idea what to do.
He have blood tests again tomorrow, but the hospital don’t do anything else…

My Mum is breaking down. I went with her to the doctor today, because she has been feeling so stressed out the past few weeks, no wonder with everything going on. The doctor put her on sick leave for two weeks and then she have to call him to talk about two more weeks.
Now she needs to relax and take care of herself and that wont be easy for her with my Dad and all.

I we spend a lot of time with my parents helping them out and cooking for my Mum to make sure that she gets some proper meals.

I can feel the stress on myself too, and my back and my arms and hands are getting even worse. My physiotherapist says that it is because the nerves in my arms are damaged and she tries to stimulate them when I’m having treatment.

But it is not all bad.

The sun is shining and all the flowers are growing outside.
Today I received the forth season of “Smallville” and looks forward to see Jensen in it;)

A big thanks to babydracky and alethea293 for the lovely cards and the cd, and to ckll and jayneeeee911 for the virtual gifts, that made me really happy today.

I think my writing skills have come back, so hopefully I’ll be able to write some of the prompts I owe you..

Thanks for being such wonderful friends I love you♥

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babydracky
May. 6th, 2009 04:58 pm (UTC)
I'm so sorry to hear that my Kastanje Honey!!
*hugs you tight*
I really hope they'll find something helpful for your dad and that he'll try to eat and drink something.
Please, have some rest and take care of yourself, pretty please. I do know you have to help your parents but I just want you to be careful, ok?
And I hope your mum will be able to rest a little herself.
*LOVE YOU*


And you're more than welcome for the postcard.♥
pippii
May. 6th, 2009 06:35 pm (UTC)
Hey sweetie,
♥hugs back♥
My Mum told him about what the doctor said today to make him eat and drink.
I promise to try and take it easy and not overdue things.
♥love you♥
hugs and kisses♥
babydracky
May. 6th, 2009 07:47 pm (UTC)
Your dad will certainly try his best to not worry you too much.
*HUGS YOU TIGHT TIGHT TIGHT AND DOESN'T LET GO*
burned_phoenix
May. 6th, 2009 05:14 pm (UTC)
ok, I haven't read anything yet, just need to say before I forget, THAT ICON IS PERFECT FOR THE DRABBLE I JUST POSTED :D it's the exact image I had in mind *snorts*

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I'm sorry to hear about your dad, he's still home though, right?
If you wanna talk, you know where I am. It's hard to deal with something like that, all the stress can get to you so easily and it's not like you can just shut off your mind :s

but you can still see the nice things so that's good *hugs and cuddles*

pippii
May. 6th, 2009 06:37 pm (UTC)
I´m gonna read your drabble next;)

My Dad is at home, so Mum and I takes care of him.

Thanks for being her hon.

♥hugs and cuddles♥
burned_phoenix
May. 7th, 2009 06:25 am (UTC)
anytime hon! *huggles*
biggelois
May. 6th, 2009 05:22 pm (UTC)
Oh dear, that sounds bad. I know how it is to have a sick dad and a miserable mum. Thank god they have you. I'm sending you all the good vibes I can from here. And hang in there!

Waht amazes me is how you still, in spite of sickensses and pains, can find something nice. Sun and flowers and Smallville. It's the little things. Not many would see them, I know I didn't. You are amazing.
pippii
May. 6th, 2009 06:40 pm (UTC)
Thanks for you concern and nice words hon.

I try to be optimistic and laugh instead of crying, I learned that during my cancertreatment...makes things easier.
And I watched Jensen in the first episode, he is soo cute;)

♥hugs you tight♥
ckll
May. 6th, 2009 05:56 pm (UTC)
I think your doctor must tell a few words to your father because the whole situation stresses your mom and you.
Patience is running out in these cases, i know :(
Hanging in there, my friend (hugs you tight)
pippii
May. 6th, 2009 06:41 pm (UTC)
We´ll try to get an appointment with the doctor to see what he´ll do about it.

Thanks honey, having all your posts to look forward to, makes things easier.

♥hugs and kisses♥
kes1807
May. 6th, 2009 06:23 pm (UTC)
I think you need to call the Doctor in to see your Dad if he is refusing to even drink. I know this is really stressful fo you and your Mum, but you are a strong person and you are doing a great job with this.

Don't forget to take good care of yourself too hun.

Thinking of you all and sending good wishes:D

*hugs you tight* xx
pippii
May. 6th, 2009 06:44 pm (UTC)
Thank you so much honey for all your caring and your concern.
My Dad gets some water but not nearly enough, so we´ll try to get the doctor into this.
Mum and I do our best and try to hang in here, and I try to make her relax and she try to make me relax;)
We do our best.

I´ve written and posted my part of the Round Robin, I hope you like it.

♥love you♥
silkmoth101
May. 6th, 2009 07:35 pm (UTC)
Oh hun, I am so sorry! Wish I could help you and your parents somehow. Did you consider speaking with his doctor? Your Dad HAS to drink enough, that's very important, especially if he had liver problems and is on medication.
*hugs you tight*
pippii
May. 6th, 2009 08:58 pm (UTC)
Thanks hon.
We´ll contact his doctor and see if he got any ideas, because my Dad he does drink some water but not nearly enough.

Just you being here makes things so much easier for me.

♥hugs back♥
woman_of_
May. 6th, 2009 08:23 pm (UTC)
I'm so sorry to hear about you dad and mom. It is good that your mom is getting some time of work, and that you are there to help her. A family illness, especially to someone as important does cause a lot of stress, which can be physical as well.

*hugs*

Love you lots honey.
pippii
May. 6th, 2009 09:00 pm (UTC)
It feels like it´s been one drama after another the past two years, so I relly don´t understand how my Mum do it...

Things are very stressfull so I thank God for anti-depressives;)

♥hugs and loves♥
silverstrings
May. 6th, 2009 08:50 pm (UTC)
Å, min kære...huff, det var trist at høre. Jeg er overrasket over at din mr har laret sin job så lenge.

Jeg tenker på dig, min tapre venninne, jeg sender dig alle mine gode tanker og håper du klarer at holde dig frisk og sterk.

Og tusen, tusen tak for det nydelige kort og nålen jeg fikk idag, det gjorde min dag så meget bedre! Tenk at du midt oppe i alt, hvad du går igjennom, bruger av din tid på at gledje lille mig!!

Veldig glad i dig, min ven...


*klemmer*
pippii
May. 6th, 2009 09:02 pm (UTC)
Tak søde,

Jeg er glad for at min mor fik en sygemelding hun trænger til at slappe lidt af.
Tusind tak for al din opmuntring og dine søde ord og tanker.
Jeg er så glad for at du kan lide kortet og gaven, jeg har altid tid til dig♥

♥knus og kys♥
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pippii
May. 7th, 2009 08:27 am (UTC)
♥hugs back♥
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pippii
May. 7th, 2009 08:29 am (UTC)
Thanks sweetheart,
it is so good to have you on my side.
♥love you too♥
The cd is great, I love the songs.
x_posed_again
May. 7th, 2009 11:58 am (UTC)
I'm so sorry to hear all of this sweetie! I wish I was close by so I could help out in some way. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you! *hugs*
pippii
May. 7th, 2009 07:18 pm (UTC)
Thanks so much hon, you know a great friend like you makes things so much easier.
♥hugs♥
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pippii
May. 7th, 2009 07:21 pm (UTC)
Tak skal du have.
Man skulle tro vi havde vænnet os til det ikke, efter to år med katastrofer;)
Tusind tak for din omsorg.
God Bededags ferie.
♥knuser♥
nocturniquette1
May. 8th, 2009 07:40 am (UTC)
Photobucket

I wish there were words big and powerful enough to wrap around you and show you how often you're in my thoughts, and always in my heart... I wish you the best, Pippii...and I keep your family in my prayers as well...

so much love.
pippii
May. 8th, 2009 09:21 am (UTC)
You really know how to make me cry Baby-Girl, and feel so lucky that I have you.
♥love you♥
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