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I NEED A HUG!!!!!!!!!

I’ve spend most of my week with my parents looking after my Mum and helping her look after my Dad….
He started out fine when he got back from the hospital, he ate, not a lot but tiny portions many times a day, he went for blood tests on Monday and then home again. Then Tuesday he started loosing everything he got down, causing him to stop eating. My Mum and I yelled at him and had to threaten him with the hospital to get him to eat….so now he eats even if it is tiny portions again.

My Mum is completely worn out by now, she had to work this weekend so I’ve been down there twice a day, around midday to give her the dinner I’d made for her and try to help her out a bit and then again in the evening, feeding and walking the dog, and to give my Dad something to eat and give him his meds…
Fortunately he is not dizzy anymore so I don’t have to spend the entire day there, he is mostly sleeping anyway.
I visit my Grandmother and keeping her updated on what happens too.

My crazy aunt called my Mum Thursday and bitched about not getting to visit Dad….then she had the nerve to tell Mum that it was for her own sake and not for Dads. She ”needed” to se him and bemoan the fact that her brother-in-law was sick. I could kill her without hesitation right now..she did the same thing when I got sick, called the family and her friends and pissed and moaned about how bad it was for her that her niece had gotten cancer!

Thursday I got part of my birthday present, my Mum and I went and bought a flat panel monitor for my pc, 22” so it is HUGE;)
Tomorrow I have another session with my psychologist, the one where I should have written the letter to my sister….as you know I stopped writing it as it made me completely miserable so I guess we just talk as usual tomorrow.

Spring cleaning is slow but steady….mostly videos and dvds getting sorted out these days, to make more room for my books….I’ve just bought the 3 supernatural books and Jim Beavers book, haven’t read them yet though.
I’ve also started writing postcards to help the fine motor skills in my hands, they are getting worse and worse along with my back….oh the joy of cancer treatment;)

I haven’t heard from Sarah, but my brother called Thursday to ask about Dad…no one hears from my sister.

That is how thngs are right now…..if I miss posts sometime I apologise…..I’m trying to find time to write the fics I’ve promised as I have some pretty good ideas;)

♥hugs and kisses to all of you♥


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Apr. 26th, 2009 02:40 pm (UTC)
*hugs tight*

Bb try to get some rest...
Apr. 26th, 2009 03:00 pm (UTC)
♥hugs back♥
I´ll try I promise I´ll try honey.
Apr. 26th, 2009 02:43 pm (UTC)

At a loss as to what to say, wishing you and your family well, and hope your health imporves soon.
Apr. 26th, 2009 03:01 pm (UTC)
♥hugs you back♥
Thank you so much hon.
Apr. 26th, 2009 02:57 pm (UTC)
Excuse me? It's bad for your aunt that you got sick and that your dad is ill? People never stop to amaze me. Jeez.

I hope it gets better soon, everything. I can't do much from over here but hugs I can send. Take care of yourself.

Apr. 26th, 2009 03:02 pm (UTC)
She is crazy!!!She is like an energy-vampire, sucking everything out of you and only feeling sorry for herself, a total drama-queen...

Thanks hon, I love hugs.
♥hugs back♥
(no subject) - biggelois - Apr. 26th, 2009 03:25 pm (UTC) - Expand
Apr. 26th, 2009 03:19 pm (UTC)
*hugs you* XX
Apr. 26th, 2009 04:07 pm (UTC)
Thanks honey♥
*hugs back*
Apr. 26th, 2009 04:41 pm (UTC)
awww pip..... thinking of you babe..
Apr. 26th, 2009 06:38 pm (UTC)
Thanks Mags.
♥love you♥
Apr. 26th, 2009 05:20 pm (UTC)
It takes a lot lot lot patience with your dad. Don't worry, he will recover slow but he will be alright.
Apr. 26th, 2009 06:39 pm (UTC)
♥hugs back♥
Thanks hon, he is getting better just hard to se your parents so fragile...
(no subject) - ckll - Apr. 26th, 2009 06:55 pm (UTC) - Expand
Apr. 26th, 2009 06:06 pm (UTC)
*hugs*... thanks for keeping us updated.
Apr. 26th, 2009 06:39 pm (UTC)
♥hugs back♥
You`re welcome honey.
Apr. 26th, 2009 06:15 pm (UTC)
Apr. 26th, 2009 06:40 pm (UTC)
Thank youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu♥♥♥
Apr. 26th, 2009 07:00 pm (UTC)
Å, min kære. Det var trist å høre hvor travelt du har det,jeg skulle ønske det var noget jeg kunde gøre for dig. Håper du klarer å ta ivare dig selv også innimellom...

Det blir nok bra å have en time hos psykologen der du kan tale lit om det der sker rundt dig, få sortert lit av dine tanker iallefall...

*klemmer dig*
Apr. 26th, 2009 07:10 pm (UTC)
Hej søde,
du gør så meget allerede, bare det at du er her og lytter og svarer betyder så meget for mig.

Jeg håber også at timen i morgen kan hjælpe.

♥knuser og krammer♥
(no subject) - silverstrings - Apr. 26th, 2009 07:34 pm (UTC) - Expand
(no subject) - pippii - Apr. 26th, 2009 07:37 pm (UTC) - Expand
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Apr. 26th, 2009 07:13 pm (UTC)
Thanks sweetheart for being so nice and concerned it means so much to me.

I try to concentrate on my parents right now, that is what I have energy for now, and everybody else have to back off and leave us alone...

♥hugs and kisses and loves you dearly♥
Apr. 26th, 2009 08:14 pm (UTC)
*hugs you tight*

Try to stay positive hun, I know it's not easy but you are doing a wonderful job considering everything. I'm sure your Dad will make a full recovery soon and then you and your Mum can relax a little.

*hugs & kisses**hearts;

ps. I got your email and I will mail you back tomorrow:D
Apr. 27th, 2009 07:12 am (UTC)
Thanks hon,
I´m trying, I just would like a couple of dramafree days you know;)
♥hugs and kisses♥
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Apr. 27th, 2009 07:12 am (UTC)
Thank youuuuuuuu♥♥
Apr. 27th, 2009 07:31 am (UTC)
Oh minx I just wanna get on a plane and come do some damage to the awful side of your family.

Sends you a million hugs x x x x
Apr. 27th, 2009 07:59 am (UTC)
Thanks hon, I really appreciate that, makes it easier knowing someone is on my side.
♥hugs back♥
Apr. 27th, 2009 07:46 am (UTC)
I hug you tight honey, I thought about you these days.. You have to have paticence and I know it's hard sometimes..
But everything will improve ♥

*hugs you very very tight*
Apr. 27th, 2009 08:01 am (UTC)
Thanks hunny,
I know it gets better, waiting and being worn out like this just makes it hard...
♥hugs you back♥
Apr. 27th, 2009 12:58 pm (UTC)
*hugs lots and lots and lots and lots and lots*

You are a wonderful daughter. Your parents are blessed with you.

Apr. 27th, 2009 04:37 pm (UTC)
Thank you so much hunny♥
I´m blessed haveing them too.
♥hugs and kisses♥
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