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This has been one hell of a week..

Starting Monday with my Dads appointment at the hospital in Hobro and him getting surgery in April.
Tuesday my Mum had an appointment with the doctor and I went with her…we spoke to the nurse - whish happens to be her doctors wife and an incredible sweet woman -
And my Mums sugar and insulin is perfect.
I was there because I’m the one that cooks for her and make sure that she eats right. I try to make her relax some more as she is stressing a lot because of my dad, me and her work, and never thinks about herself….I’m gonna keep a close eye on her because I’m afraid that she will break some day soon.
After the doctor we met with my Mums sister and went for coffee and shopping.
Her sister is like the vampire of our family…she drains people she is around for their energy and I don`t spend that much time with her…she is kind like my sister..cuts my Mum off when she don`t need her, and comes back when she does.
I was there like a buffer and we spend a couple of good hours together before we went our separate ways.
She kept asking what I was doing on my 40th birthday and if she was invited. I said I don`t know and No, but I’m not sure she heard me.
Wednesday I went to visit my grandmother to see if she was ok. I had some food I bought for her, she likes that. My Mum was there cleaning and my Dad for talking, so I went home with them afterwards and had dinner…I brought the food so it was kind of easy;)
Today nothing much happened, but tomorrow my Mum and I are going shopping. She has the weekend off so I’m planning a Mummy pampering day in the weekend;)

And other things;
My parents have bought a vacation for the three of us to Scotland in August, 12 days by bus Starting through Birmingham to Glasgow and ending in Edinburgh and Leicester. There will be the Tattoo at Edinburgh Castle and everything and we are all so exited. Due to the major financial crises here in Denmark some people can get paid some special pensions this summer and my parents both have those and chooses to spend them on this vacation. It was one of my Mums major threads to get my dad to have surgery, if he didn’t he wouldn’t go to Scotland.
And another good thing, I got a nice tax refund and some money that I earned in 2007 and had never collected so I will be able to afford the vacation;)

Sarah is coming to my 40th birthday. It is the day before Easter and she’ll be spending some days here…I hope for good weather so we get to go to our Troll wood. It is an ancient wood with a lot of old trees dedicated to the trolls and Sarah have never been there.

Seems like people like my fic writing and I’m so happy about that thank you for reading.
I think I have to invent a pancake!verse soon;)
If anyone wants me to write something please let me know, I even made feeble attempts of NC17 that some people like…it is very good therapy these days takes my mind of all the family problems, so please couples and prompts this way;)

To end on a happy note spring is here…took these a couple of days ago;)

♥Thank you for listening to my rambling and being such wonderful friends.
♥love you all♥


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Mar. 19th, 2009 04:47 pm (UTC)
It's wonderful that your mom's health is ok. I know, these things must being very careful in the nutrition.
You should invite the people that makes you feel good in your birthday and not negative people, you don't need that, hun.
Financial crisis is everywhere but i hope your parents make their holiday they need :)

It smells spring here :D so igive you my biggest (HUG)
Love you
Mar. 19th, 2009 05:30 pm (UTC)
Thanks so much hun;)
I don`t want to do much for my birthday, just have a good time with Sarah and my parents.
The holiday will be great, we`ve been to Scotland twice before.
♥happy spring hug to you too♥
Mar. 19th, 2009 05:01 pm (UTC)
You know you really look like your mum, so wonderful people you are *nodnod*
So generous and so courageous! I always feel ashamed to not be a better person or to not try harder ;_;
But I'm happy to be your friend and "help" when I can.
I hope everything will be alright for your parents and what a good news about your vacations!!! This is so great! And I know how much you love Scotland! ♥
By the way I don't think I told you bu this summer I'll go to Scotland or to Ireland!^^ I can't wait!
Mar. 19th, 2009 05:34 pm (UTC)
Thank you so much sweetie,
I suppose I look like my Mum both body and soul, but she is great so I´m proud of it.
Hey you, you are such a wonderful caring and sweet girl and you do so much for me, I could not have gone throuh the past few days without you.
Aww going to Scotland or Ireland, YAY..
When do you know for sure.
♥love you my sweetie♥
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Mar. 19th, 2009 07:09 pm (UTC)
That's good news about your Mum's sugar and insulin, I know how hard it is to keep level as my Dad is an insulin dependant diabetic too.

You don't have to invite anyone to your birthday party who makes you feel uncomfortable, it's your party and you should be surrounded by people that make you happy. That's great news that Sarah will be able to be with you on your birthday, that will be special:D

You will all have a great time on your holiday, and you'll be passing close by me the journey you will be doing. I wish there was some way to meet with you:(

Everyone world wide is feeling the financial crisis right now, so you're not alone in that.

I still have one or two of your fics to catch up with, but I will get to them soon.

Lovely pictures and it felt like spring here today:)

*hugs you tight* xx
Mar. 19th, 2009 07:32 pm (UTC)
Thanks so much honey.
Mum is doing good with her diabetes and that is the importent thing right now with all that is going on in our family.
I guess I´ll just invite my parents and Sarah and then we`ll go have a meal at my grandmother and aunt and maybe take Sarah to the woods the day after...nothing fancy just fun...

We all looks so much forward to the holiday can`t wait to go.

Don`t worry about the fics, you just read when you have the time, and I post when I get a new done;)

♥hugs you tight and hope that spring will last♥
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Mar. 19th, 2009 07:43 pm (UTC)
Det har været en dejlig dag idag med sol og blæst.
Ja der er nok at se til i en familie som min hvor der kun er os tre til at hjælpe hinanden.
Mine forældre får det bedre så det er dejligt.
Skotland er et vidunderligt land, jeg glæder mig til at komme tilbage.
Mar. 19th, 2009 07:55 pm (UTC)
Glad you have something to look forward to, and hope you all enjoy your time in Scotland!
Mar. 19th, 2009 08:04 pm (UTC)
Thanks honey,
I´m sure I´ll love the vacation.
♥hugs you tight♥
Mar. 19th, 2009 08:08 pm (UTC)
Scotland will be awesome, I am sure. I am so glad that you all have something to look forward to after the hard times!
And your sister and your mom's sister... alas, many people are like this. You can't really avoid them anymore, there are too many. Stick to those you love and everything will be allright!

Love and Hugs
Mar. 19th, 2009 08:16 pm (UTC)
Thank you so much honey and thanks for the gift, you are awesome♥

My sister and my Mums sister are sooo alike:(
I just avoid them..

♥hugs and kisses♥
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Mar. 19th, 2009 08:19 pm (UTC)
Hugs you soooooooooooo hard....

*hugs* xxxx
Mar. 19th, 2009 08:20 pm (UTC)
♥hugs you back, love you♥
Mar. 19th, 2009 10:38 pm (UTC)
You are such a wonderful and caring person, I feel very blessed to know you and to be part of your life (as much as I can seeing as a huge ocean separates us). Your courage never cases to amaze me and your dedication to family and friends is amazing. We should all be thanking you for letting us into your life.

*hugs from WAY over in America*

Love ya girly!
Mar. 20th, 2009 08:41 am (UTC)
Thank you so much for your kind words, I´m overwhelmed...

I´m not that special though, just trying to do the best I can.
Thank YOU for being in my life, you are an amazing friend, and I could not have done this without your support.
♥hugs back over the ocean♥
Mar. 19th, 2009 11:30 pm (UTC)
Your family is wonderful, so, so strong, you are all such an inspiration........best wishes to you all.......thank you so much for sharing your life with us......I hope I give you all just a fraction of the hope you give me.........lots of love Jayne x
Mar. 20th, 2009 08:44 am (UTC)
Thanks for being such an awesome and supportive friend.
I use this lj partly as a diary, to get my thoughts down and get some feedback on things here, I´m happy you like reading it.
I´m so happy to have met you and thank you for everything.
♥love you too♥
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Mar. 20th, 2009 08:47 am (UTC)
Thanks Pam, I´m so lucky to have you and Rhonda in my life and I´m happy that you like my posts.
40 is a good age right????
♥love and ugs to you too♥

ps, don`t remember if I told you, but I had my 6 month check up 2 weeks ago and still no cancer;)
Mar. 20th, 2009 11:49 am (UTC)
*hugs you tight*

wish I could be there for you more. *is the worst friend ever*

Scotland will be soo awesome.

*hugs again*

and love the pics
Mar. 20th, 2009 02:46 pm (UTC)
♥hugs you back♥

You are an amazing friend and I´m so happy to have you in my life, don`t you ever forget that.

Scotland is wonderful I´ve been there twice before.
♥hugs you and love you♥
Mar. 20th, 2009 12:34 pm (UTC)
I'm glad you got through the week. I hope that every day gets a little easier and easier for you and your family. *hugs*
Mar. 20th, 2009 02:46 pm (UTC)
Thanks Andrea, we try to help each other and get something positive into every day.
♥hugs you back♥
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Mar. 21st, 2009 07:59 pm (UTC)
Thanks sweetheart,
Things go up and down so you just got to embrace the good times..
Scotland is amazing, I´ve been there twice before.
Hmmmm my bithday....you really don`t have to give me anything..
But I would love Jared or a pair of earrings, I just love big long earrings^^
♥love you♥
Mar. 22nd, 2009 08:45 pm (UTC)
Oh, wow, det var lit av en uge. Stakkels dig!

Håper den neste bliver noget bedre...

Skottland er utrolig vakkert, det bliver nok en fantastisk tur. Det er godt at have noget at se fremover mot.

Og så deiligt at skrivingen hjelper dig!

Mar. 22nd, 2009 09:18 pm (UTC)
Det har været en hård uge, men det er så godt at man kan komme her og tale med nogle der lytter.

Skotland er dejligt jeg ahr været der to gange før og jeg glæder mig;)

Skrivningen hjælper meget, så har jeg andre ting at tænke på end problemerne.

Mar. 23rd, 2009 11:31 am (UTC)
Hope you enjoy Scotland honey. I've always wanted to see the tattoo, it'll be great.
Mar. 23rd, 2009 04:29 pm (UTC)
Thanks honey,
I´ve been to Scotland twice before and to the tattoo once, it`ll be great.
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