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Not that I will, but I want to.

The situation is this – last Sunday at Theas birthday, I, Thea, SIL and BRO made plans for Thea to spend this weekend here..

So Tuesday I texted BRO to hear when she would arrive and if she would sleep over….

Wednesday…*I´ll call you* from BRO! However, Nothing!

Thursday, I texted again … Nothing!

Yesterday, Friday, I texted that I needed to know or I would make other plans.
(Not that I have any plans)

Text from BRO, Thea has football game at Saturday, and a village event Sunday, so she would not spend her weekend here!

THROTTLEING BECAUSE: They have known this for DAYS, but could not be bothered to tell me, because me being on disability pension, have nothing better to do than sit around and wait for them letting the girls spend time with me!

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a_phoenixdragon
May. 28th, 2016 07:47 pm (UTC)
Urrghhh, wth!! Texting back takes two seconds, arrghhh!!

*hugs you fiercely*
pippii
May. 29th, 2016 03:40 pm (UTC)
Yes....
Just shows how little he think of me I think..

Love and Kisses♥
honeyjojames
May. 29th, 2016 12:08 am (UTC)
I hate this sort of thing! It's so annoying and very disrespectful! My brother also has a habit of doing this! Grr! Shall we throttle them together?! ;)
*hugs*
pippii
May. 29th, 2016 03:46 pm (UTC)
Yes "The Throttle Sisters", I like that.

Why do people have to be disrespectful to us?
Our time is as valuable as theirs is, if we spend it different from them, does not make it less valuable.

♥kisses♥
burned_phoenix
May. 30th, 2016 11:09 am (UTC)
See, exactly that is something I can explode over, this level of inconsiderate. I just dealt with something similar and really blew up about it.
If you had plans and something changes YOU LET THE OTHER PEOPLE INVOLCED IN SAID PLANS FREAKING KNOW ABOUT IT!!!
You don't just go and make different plans and assume they will probably notice at some point. ARg. If you make plans with other people you have a responsibility to keep them informed. And not be a selfish little a**hole who just does what suits yourself, f*ck everyone else!

Sorry. This might not have been completely about your brother, though it does apply. I'm still pissed about last weekend. The last long weekend we could have had for months, and because someone else didn't inform us that the original plans didn't come to be, it was too late to do anything fun with it. So now I dislike that person even more than I did before.


How was your weekend though, did you end up doing anything nice anyway?
pippii
Jun. 3rd, 2016 03:01 pm (UTC)
Me too, it is so disrespectful and a huge waste of our time, as if it is not important at all. Sorry that you had to deal with something similar.

Letting us know about the changes, would be polite, but why would they be polite to us, we have all the tie in the world to just sit around, cancelling other plans and just wait for their phone call.

I suspect that your sister have messed up your days and plans here. Alternatively, maybe Michaels (?) ex messed up your plans.
I don`t know why people think that people like us – that are nice, willing to do what we can for others, and practically keep things together for a lot of other people that not even know it – why do some people think it is right to use us as doormats. I think it is our conscience that play a big part. We always want to do the right thing. I don`t want to hurt Thea with denying her time here, as I know she will be so sad if she could not get here for a weekend. In addition, BRO know that and uses that to his advances.

I had a nice weekend though spend time with Mum and cleaned up a lot of stuff to charity.
How are you doing Darling? ♥

burned_phoenix
Jun. 6th, 2016 01:11 pm (UTC)
Nah, Steffi wouldn't mess anything up, the amount of time we spend talking, we're very aware of who does what when and whatever happens to change things :D

A friend of Michael's, but I wrote a whole post about that I think.

Don't know where the problem is to just let someone know as soon as you become aware of the fact that something won't work out?!

pippii
Jun. 6th, 2016 03:17 pm (UTC)
It is great it is not her, I`ll be sure to read your post.

Some people are just so stupid and doesn`t care about others...
burned_phoenix
Jun. 7th, 2016 07:44 am (UTC)
sadly, yes
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