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MUM IS HOME – AND OTHER NEWS…

Mum got home Wednesday evening, SIS picked her up. I´ve had been grocery shopping so she would not starve.
Thursday she wanted the dog’s home so I delivered them after their morning walk and breakfast.
Then I went shopping for the few things Mum needed.

Mums upstairs neighbour, Helle – she is an artist, and have a puddle – arranged dogs walking with Mum. So Mum can call on her whenever she needs help.

Another doggie owner we know is there if Mum needs something like medication picked up in the weekends – or Mum needs help with the dogs…..
Today Mum and I went grocery shopping….After Mum had been walking the dogs and doing a few chores around her flat. And resting for two hours…
It took a long time with the resting places, but Mum was glad she did it….And her next door neighbour showed up and he carried her groceries up for her, so I didn´t have to.

I’d probably go shopping myself tomorrow, but that is fine.

Mum wants to say thank you to all of you, for the kind words, cards, prayers and thoughts.
That means the world to her, that there are someone that cares for her.
Hugs and Bless You All.

A lot have been going on with Crazy!Aunt, BRO and SIS since Mum got in the hospital.

At first these ground rules have been forever and stays!!;
I am Mums contact person (as she is mine) in all hospital papers and records; the hospital calls ME, if something happens and I’ll call around with whatever there is to tell...

On Thursday, the day after Mums operations, Crazy!Aunt and her hubby arrived four hours before they were expected,,, but they stayed for around one hour and she behaved and everything was fine.
I stayed until later and got home.
Then Friday morning Mum called in shock;
Crazy!Aunt had called the information, telling them to put her up as Mums contact person and deleting me. When they refused, she had been screaming and making a big scene…Mum was so embarrassed.
We agreed on NOT answering her calls for a few days, as Mum couldn’t handle her.

BRO has been fine, helping out with the things Mum will need.

SIS has been kind to me, letting me be around Rebecca and Benedicte…. That is a good sign.
I will never forgive her for what she said and did to me and Mum and Dad when I had cancer…but for the family peace, I’ll follow her rules…
So it seems that BRO and SIL will be kind and not make problems.
Mum does not need that….

Thank you to all of you for being here for Mum and me… Love and Hugs you all.

Comments

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bflyw
Aug. 15th, 2014 07:57 pm (UTC)
*hugs*
pippii
Aug. 16th, 2014 05:56 pm (UTC)
♥ Tak ♥
shanachie_quill
Aug. 15th, 2014 10:13 pm (UTC)
I mailed the card. Could not remember your Mum's name for the life of me so it's addressed to "Mum" and Annette's Mum. Hope she's okay with that. :-)

I'm glad she's home and things seem to be working out all right. *hugs* Looks like it's coming along nicely. Hope she gets some good rest and relaxation. And feels better soon.

Oi with Crazy Aunt. There's always gotta be one.

I'm glad things are going better with your SIS, that's awesome!
pippii
Aug. 16th, 2014 05:58 pm (UTC)
Awwweee you are so sweet..
Mums name is Gitte, but Mum is fine ♥
Thank you so much for all your kind words Honey♥¨
Huggles
shanachie_quill
Aug. 16th, 2014 06:43 pm (UTC)
:-) Hopefully it'll make it there. I dunno why it wasn't marked in my address book. I'll make sure to put it in my book.

You're very welcome.

*hugs*
pippii
Aug. 17th, 2014 02:02 pm (UTC)
I´m sure it will get here,
I´ll be sure to tell you as soon as the card get here.
Huggles♥
shanachie_quill
Aug. 17th, 2014 02:21 pm (UTC)
Sounds good :-)

*hugs*
pippii
Aug. 19th, 2014 05:00 pm (UTC)
Your card arrived today, and I´ve given it to Mum ;)
she told you "Thank You So Much" for your kindness...and if she couldn´t read it, I was to translate it for her the next time we meet ;)
But Thank you so much for being so sweet and kind honey♥♥♥
HUGS
shanachie_quill
Aug. 19th, 2014 08:17 pm (UTC)
Yay I'm so glad she got it! I tried to write legibly and everything.

You're very welcome!

*hugs*
burned_phoenix
Aug. 15th, 2014 10:22 pm (UTC)
does it just feel that way or do the crazies get extra crazy when you need it the least?

*hugs you both tight* but it's good that you get to see your other nieces.

My dad received a postcard from my niece and nephews from their holidays. My mother did not. I don't know what their problem is. My mom even went over to their place and called to find a time for her to see the kids. She never got an answer.
pippii
Aug. 17th, 2014 02:09 pm (UTC)
Thank you Darling♥♥♥
Yes crazy people shows up when you don´t need it...but Crazy!Aunt have been out of circulation the past days...
I am sorry about your Mum.......
If you would mail me her full name and address, I would be so happy to send her a card....for her kindness towards us and for her wonderful daughter that none of us here in Denmark can live without ♥
YOu´ll be the star in my next post here☻
Love you ♥♥♥
burned_phoenix
Aug. 18th, 2014 07:35 am (UTC)
You could always mail it to me and I give it to her if you wanted :) My mom is a bit particular about giving out information. *shrugs*

I'll be a star?! :D

How are you guys doing?
honeyjojames
Aug. 15th, 2014 11:33 pm (UTC)
Glad your mum's home! Wishing her a very speedy recovery! So sorry you've had problems with crazy!aunt again. I think burned_phoenix is absolutely right - the crazies get crazier when you really need them to be less crazy!
Glad your sister is being nice though and that you have been able to see Rebecca and Benedicte!

Lots of love to you and your mum. I hope she heals up and recovers well! *big, big hugs to you both*
pippii
Aug. 17th, 2014 02:11 pm (UTC)
Thank you Honey,
Mum is getting better, there are people around here to help.
My SIS is being kind, and I enjoy the time with her kids.
Thank you so much for being here Honey....
♥Love you ♥
haldoor
Aug. 16th, 2014 12:21 am (UTC)
I'm sorry I haven't been around to wish you and your mum all the best, but I'm glad to hear she's doing okay. Sorry about all the family goings-on, and hope there's not too many issues for you both to deal with. *hugs* and much love to you both.
pippii
Aug. 17th, 2014 02:14 pm (UTC)
That is ok honey♥
We are doing well now, have each other and you here to make everything better♥
Love you♥♥
a_phoenixdragon
Aug. 16th, 2014 12:54 am (UTC)
I am so glad she is home and surrounded by good people who will watch over her. And I am glad that at least some of the family is behaving (and that the hospital knew better than to cave). Blessings to you all.

*Snuggles*
pippii
Aug. 17th, 2014 02:15 pm (UTC)
Thank you darling, you are so right.
I´m glad the hospital didn´t cave either, what is important is what Mum wants...
Love youuuuuuuuuuuu♥♥
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