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BECAUSE HE REFUSES TO HELP HIS MUM???
I have just now....the thing is, Mums pug Nanna, has one bad eye and one good eye as most of you know. Now her good eye has been infected and Mum had to take her to the vet. She arranged that Crazy!Aunts boyfriend would take her there. And I called my Bro, to fetch her after...He agreed to that so I went and walked Balder, and Mum called to say that Nanna has to have her eye operated in Århus, or she could loose it.
(It is 117 km from Aalborg.) At this time Mum is really out of it, so I tell her to call Bro to drive her and I will take Balder until tomorrow. Few minutes later Mum calls in tears, Bro do not want to drive her - his excuse is that he has promised the girls and SIL that they will have dinner in IKEA.
I sort of flipped after the phonecall, and went and rang the doorbell with the people I knew had a car, no one answered.
Then Mum called and told me that she had an appointment at the vets in Århus tomorrow at 11, and that Crazy!Aunts boyfriend would drive her.
BRO called me, and he said that he didn´t understand that Mum would keep Nanna, but he would pick up Mum and Nanna and get them home.
I told him to play nice and that I kept Balder...
So now here I am ,in tears because I cannot do anything to help Mum, have a Bro that I really want to kill for not being there for his Mum, and still afraid to tell him my mind, because then I will not be able to see Sarah and Thea until they are 30......

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buzziecat
Feb. 28th, 2014 05:58 pm (UTC)
Pippii,

Is there any veterinary office near you that can give Nanna some treatment until the surgery - something to keep the eye from deteriorating more?

Do you or your mum drive and, if so, can you rent a car for 1-2 days to go to Arhus - or - it this not necessary as you say that bf will drive them to Arhus and bro will take them home?

Take some deep breaths and try to stay away from the most dire thoughts. They don't offer any help, only more distress.

Hugs.
buzzie
pippii
Mar. 1st, 2014 11:56 am (UTC)
Hi Buzzie,
The vet here gave Mum some eyedrops and some medication for the swelling, so they started treating her yesterday.
My aunts boyfriend is the sweetest guy, and he always want to help when he can. He picked up Mum and Nanna today at nine, and drove them and waits with Mum to take Nanna home later today.
The vet in Århus is the best "vet eye-doctor" in Denmark, and he is operating Nanna as we speak.
Turned out that Nanna had a sort of hole into the eye, but it can be helped and she will not go blind.
It help writing this post yesterday, I was able to talk to bro, without flipping out.
Thank you for always being here for us.
Hugs
Pippii


buzziecat
Mar. 1st, 2014 10:22 pm (UTC)
Good news. So happy to hear it.

Good to air things out with friends and then keep it cool(er) with the person you'd like to blast. :))

Will Nanna have to wear glasses now? *giggle*
pippii
Mar. 4th, 2014 03:26 pm (UTC)
I´m am so happy that I have amazing friends that support me no matter what.
LOL yes, we have to look into glasses for Nanna;) Maybe red?
♥hugs
buzziecat
Mar. 4th, 2014 04:08 pm (UTC)
Red is good. :))

How is Nanna's recovery? Do you still have Balder with you?
♥hugs
princesslanie
Feb. 28th, 2014 06:05 pm (UTC)
hugs
pippii
Mar. 1st, 2014 11:57 am (UTC)
♥ Thank you♥
Love the icon;)
shanachie_quill
Feb. 28th, 2014 06:10 pm (UTC)
*hugs* Deep breaths. I'm sorry. Wish there was something more I could do for you.
pippii
Mar. 1st, 2014 12:00 pm (UTC)
Thank you honey, I am calm now, things is getting better.
Thank you for being here.
♥Hugs
shanachie_quill
Mar. 2nd, 2014 12:47 am (UTC)
Anytime I can be. Glad things are getting better.

I got my angel wing today. It's beautiful!
pippii
Mar. 4th, 2014 03:23 pm (UTC)
I´m happy the angel wing arrived and that you like it♥
Hugs
shanachie_quill
Mar. 4th, 2014 03:40 pm (UTC)
I love it. Can't wait to put it on my keychain. :-)
biggelois
Feb. 28th, 2014 06:17 pm (UTC)
Oh no! Not the Foul Beast! Your brother is an ass, not recognising how much a 'mere pet' can mean. When it's over, have him over for coffe and accidentally spill a pot of something hot on him.
Using the girls as an excuse to get out off driving is beyond low, the girls will definitely understand and IKEA will be there like forever.

Biggest hugs to you, Gitte, dogs, girls...Not bro.
pippii
Mar. 1st, 2014 12:09 pm (UTC)
Poor Foul Beast....
I´m sure the girls would understand, they love Nanna, and would be so sad if anything happened to her.
Thank you for being here Honey, it helps so much.
Klemmer♥
dreamers_dh
Feb. 28th, 2014 07:11 pm (UTC)
Oh, sweetie...

I'm so sorry for such a dumb brother!
I wish I could do something for you and Gitte and Nanna right now.
pippii
Mar. 1st, 2014 12:07 pm (UTC)
Thank you hon, being here for us helps us so much.
♥Hugs
jojothecr
Feb. 28th, 2014 07:21 pm (UTC)
Asshole.
pippii
Mar. 1st, 2014 11:57 am (UTC)
True♥
Hugs
a_phoenixdragon
Feb. 28th, 2014 10:38 pm (UTC)
what the f@#k?! Seriously?! OMg, wanna strangle him!!

*HUGS*
pippii
Mar. 1st, 2014 11:59 am (UTC)
Me too, thank you for being here♥
Hugs
digitalwave
Mar. 1st, 2014 07:53 am (UTC)
*lots and lots of hugs*

Wish I could do more, sweetie.
pippii
Mar. 1st, 2014 11:58 am (UTC)
Thank you for being here honey, that helps so much♥♥
Hugs
burned_phoenix
Mar. 4th, 2014 08:24 am (UTC)
That sucks :s Did everything go okay? How are Nanna and your mom?
pippii
Mar. 4th, 2014 03:24 pm (UTC)
Everything is good now, Nanna is on medication for a few days, and Mum and I are calmed down;)
♥Hugs♥
burned_phoenix
Mar. 5th, 2014 09:11 am (UTC)
that's so good to hear :)
pippii
Mar. 5th, 2014 03:43 pm (UTC)
♥Looooooooovvvveeeeee♥♥♥3
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