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THERE IS NO EASY WAY TO SAY THIS….

and as we never get a break here.....



Today I went to the hospital with Mum.
She has been having stomach pains the past 6 month, so her doctor wanted her checked out.
Gastroscopy and colonoscopy.
The result...

Mum has colon cancer…………..

We talked to a really nice doctor that spoke about surgery, and Mum is going for a scan on Monday, and next Thursday we will have a talk with the doctor and other staff, to hear how the process will be.
The doctor talked about surgery, and if anyone else have had it. Mums dad died from stomach- and colon cancer in 1984...but no one else have had it.

Mum is kind of numb and blank right now…and I did what I always do; made the door smack on my feelings so I can be strong for Mum.
Not healthy but that is the only way I can do it.

I know I have no right to ask anything from you, but if you would make a comment for Mum here, I will print them for her and I know that it will mean so much to her. You guys are her family as you are mine…

♥love you♥

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Aug. 16th, 2012 01:31 pm (UTC)
Ohhh my goodness sweetie! I will be praying for you and your mom every night to make sure she has a safe surgery if she decides to go that route and that she recovers quickly.

Big hugs to both of you especially you darling for being so strong! If there is anything I can do please let me know. ♥
pippii
Aug. 16th, 2012 01:41 pm (UTC)
Thanks Baby-Girl...

Thank you for your prayers that will mean so much to Mum.
It will be hard, but Mum and I have the privilige of caring friends here, that will make it easier.

If you could maybe write a small comment for Mum, she would be so happy..she knows about you. You are the one in love with Michael Phelpes, and she cheered for him at the Olympics....

♥big hugs and kisses♥
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aelia1980
Aug. 16th, 2012 01:33 pm (UTC)
Hi, hon, I´m very sorry to hear this, for both of you but of course, esp. for your mom. Such devastating news. I´ll keep my fingers crossed for your mom and will be thinking of her that things aren´t as worse as they sound and that the doctors can help your mom successfully.

Sending you all my thoughts *hugs*
pippii
Aug. 16th, 2012 01:43 pm (UTC)
Thank you so much darling.
All thoughts and fingers crossed will be a great help for her.
Thank you for being here darling.
Hugs and love♥
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lisaj67
Aug. 16th, 2012 02:04 pm (UTC)
My prayers are with you and your whole family with enough good will and good vibes sent your way I'm certain your mum can beat this nasty monster,Hugs you all really tight xxxxx
pippii
Aug. 16th, 2012 02:20 pm (UTC)
Thank you Lisa♥
I am so glad that you care about Mum and me, it means so much tu us.
♥hugs back♥
babycin
Aug. 16th, 2012 02:12 pm (UTC)
I already commented on FB but I need to comment here too.
I'm so sorry for you and your mum, really.

I'm sure it is hard and it's something you didn't need in your life. Please, focus on your inner strenght and keep the faith alive, because I'm sure they will do their best and they will succeed to help you to go through this.
We are with you and Annette, we think about you and pray for you <3
pippii
Aug. 16th, 2012 02:23 pm (UTC)
Thank you so much my Sunshine♥
I will du all I can to be there for Mum and be strong and put her before anything else.
Having you here, caring and loving, will make it easier.
Thank you for your prayers and love Sunshine♥
♥Love you♥
jojothecr
Aug. 16th, 2012 02:22 pm (UTC)
Oh my God, no... Jesus, I am so, so sorry for all of you. Like your sickness and your sick sister and all the things in between are not enough. I honestly don't even know what to say. I'll keep you both in my thoughts and I pray that the surgery goes well.

Dear Gitte, please, stay strong and fight like a girl. Like your amazing daughter.

Damn, just yesterday, I've sent you a letter, Annette, it will sound silly now.

*hugs you both*
pippii
Aug. 16th, 2012 03:31 pm (UTC)
Thank you darling. No one expected it, we both thouhgt it was a stomach ulcer..
Thank you for caring and for your prayers, and the note for Mum.

Don´t think your letter will be silly, everything from you is appreciated from all of you♥

♥Hugs and Love♥
andrea_ze
Aug. 16th, 2012 02:26 pm (UTC)
Ohhh no...
OMG, hon.
This is so hard for you both.
I pray for you guys and I hope (no, I KNOW!) that you both will find the strength to go through this.
As people say: "If you´re going through hell, keep the f**** going!"
*smile*

Well, surgery is a good chance to beat this.
The trick is, i guess, not to loose faith and believe you can solve this.

“May God grant you always...A sunbeam to warm you, a moonbeam to charm you, a sheltering Angel so nothing can harm you. Laughter to cheer you. Faithful friends near you. And whenever you pray, Heaven to hear you.”


*HUGs from Germany!!!!*
pippii
Aug. 17th, 2012 09:26 am (UTC)
Re: Ohhh no...
Thank you darling, for your prayers and kind words.

They mean a lot to both of us..

♥hugs♥
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pollyspn
Aug. 16th, 2012 02:33 pm (UTC)
Oh my goodness Annette.. I'm so sorry to heard this hon... Tell your Mum I'll be praying for her and for you each day... I wish the best for her and for you my darling.. **hug hug hug hug hug hug**

For Annette's Mum:

Hey my dear, I don't know if you believe in God or not, but I believe and I know he does good things for good people. So I'm asking him to do the best for you and your family, right? Because you're a such great, wonderful person. You and your daughter. I also know that Lord puts wonderful people in our path. Lord (and Supernatural, I know *-*) put your daughter on my life, and I'm very grateful every day for this. You have raised a great person, amazing, loving and I love her very much. And with her ​​love and all of us, you will go through all this. I believe that.
A loving Brazilian hug.
From,
Polly.

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pippii
Aug. 17th, 2012 09:27 am (UTC)
Thank you Polly this means so muchto both of us.
You are a sweet and kind friend.

♥big hugs♥
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pippii
Aug. 17th, 2012 09:28 am (UTC)
Hey Sweetheart,
Thank your for praying and for being here for us.
You are a wonderful friend.
♥love you♥
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silkmoth101
Aug. 16th, 2012 02:46 pm (UTC)
Oh Jesus, I am so sorry to hear this. *deep breaths*

You are both strong women, you and your mother. You will fight this and win!

To your mom: All my prayers go out for you! There has to happen something positive in this weird year, and I pray that this positive thing will be you and that you're healing and beating this illness! ♥
pippii
Aug. 17th, 2012 01:25 pm (UTC)
Hey sweetheart♥
Thank you for being here for us, that means so much to us
Thanks for your kind words.
♥kisses
silkmoth101
Aug. 16th, 2012 02:53 pm (UTC)
And now to you, sweetheart. I know how strong you are and I also understand the need to shut down from your emotions. But please... when you are alone, let go and cry, you hear me? You need to take care of yourself to stay as healthy and strong as you're able to. And this also means, to allow yourself to break down and cry. Maybe you can talk to your doctor as well? Maybe you need some ant-anxiety pills, maybe something homeopathic, maybe something stronger. Take it! I know you already take lots of meds but still... please talk to your doctor as well. This is an emergency situation. Sending you love and healing vibes for your mom and for you as well.
pippii
Aug. 17th, 2012 01:29 pm (UTC)
Thank you for your concern sweetheart.
The way of blocking my feelings out is a hard way to deal with stuff. But it is the only thing I can do, it is not even a concious decission, it just happens.
That doesn´t mean that I don´t have feelings or care, because I do, it is just when I am with Mum I have to be the strong one for her, because if I fall apart, she does too...I did the same when I got cancer, to be stron for Mum and Dad.
Thank you so much for caring and your kind words and your love and healing vibes, they mean the world to both of us.
♥love you♥
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pippii
Aug. 17th, 2012 01:33 pm (UTC)
Ohhh Pam thank you for being here.
Your kind words and love makes everything so much better for us, especially when I know what you are going through now.
♥Love you Pam♥
Kisses
daisychain1957
Aug. 16th, 2012 03:28 pm (UTC)
Dear Annette and mom, please know that my thoughts and heart are with you both, and knowing you are both strong women makes me know that you will fight this together, with us here in the background to love and support you as best we can

*Huge hugs and love to you both*
pippii
Aug. 17th, 2012 01:36 pm (UTC)
Your support and kind words means so much to both of us Susan.
Thank you for being here for us.

♥hugs and love to you too♥
honeyjojames
Aug. 16th, 2012 03:52 pm (UTC)
Oh god, sweetie, I am so, so sorry for both you and your mum. I can't believe how much has happened to you and your family, and to have this on top of everything else is horrible. *extra tight hugs*
If there is anything I can do for either of you, please let me know.

To your mum:
Gitte, I'm so sorry to hear your awful news. Please stay strong and know you have many, many friends in many places who genuinely care about you and are sending you strength and good thoughts. I will be thinking of you. *hugs*
pippii
Aug. 17th, 2012 01:38 pm (UTC)
Your kind words here makes me feel better ♥
The support and kindness towards Mum is so lovely and it helps us both.
Thank you honey♥
♥hugs♥
bluedelft
Aug. 16th, 2012 04:27 pm (UTC)
((Big Hugs)) for both you and you Mom!

Please know that you and your Mom will be in my thoughts and my prayers!

((MORE HUGS))
pippii
Aug. 17th, 2012 09:38 am (UTC)
Thank you for your prayers and kindness, that means the world to us both.

♥big hugs♥
dreamers_dh
Aug. 16th, 2012 04:28 pm (UTC)
Oh, no!

I think you family had enough of all of this already!


Dear Gitte,
I don't know how you feel right now but I can imagine you must be afraid and shocked.
But you have to know that you can survive this. You can be strong as your amazing daughter and you can fight this.
I know you can!
I keep you in my prayer...
*hugs*
pippii
Aug. 17th, 2012 01:40 pm (UTC)
Hey hon, yeah I thought so too, but some people never gets a break right?
Thank you so much for your sweet and kind words to Mum, they means so much to us.
♥Hugs and kisses♥
albertesmor
Aug. 16th, 2012 04:40 pm (UTC)
Det er jeg sgu ked af at høre.
Sender de varmeste tanker nordpå til jer to.
krammer
pippii
Aug. 17th, 2012 09:39 am (UTC)
Tusind tak min ven, det betyder så meget at der er nogle der bekymrer sig.
♥krammer
shaunk00
Aug. 16th, 2012 05:01 pm (UTC)
Aww hunni I hope you're ok. I'm sure everything will be ok and with you as a daughter your mum has the best support and the best company ever.

Both of you stay strong
Hugs xXx
pippii
Aug. 17th, 2012 01:43 pm (UTC)
Awwwww Shaun, thank you for your sweet words and encouragement.
That is so kind of you honey♥
♥big hugs♥♥
ex_mooseali
Aug. 16th, 2012 05:11 pm (UTC)
Oh no! That is so horrible! I am giving to both of you huge hugs. Tell her to stay strong and I am wishing her a safe surgery and fast recovery. :)
pippii
Aug. 17th, 2012 09:40 am (UTC)
I will honey, thank you for your kindness.
♥big hugs♥
biggelois
Aug. 16th, 2012 05:44 pm (UTC)
Oh my sweet jesus! I don't know what to say. I love you both. I'm not the praying kind but I'm going to send some up for Gitte.
Let me know what I can do for you, both of you.

Love you.
pippii
Aug. 17th, 2012 01:47 pm (UTC)
Thank you for being here honey.
We both love you and your wonderful family, and having you here for us means the world to us.
I will let you know if there is anything...
♥Elsker dig♥
bflyw
Aug. 16th, 2012 06:54 pm (UTC)
Jeg vet ikke helt hva jeg skal si.... dette er bare så urettferdig. Men det er det jo alltid når det gjelder kreft.
Jeg håper at legene kan komme med positive tilbakemeldinger på tirsdag.
Sender dere begge varme tanker og krysser alt jeg har i håp om legene kan tilby rask og god behandling.
pippii
Aug. 17th, 2012 01:49 pm (UTC)
Tusind tak min kære.
Jeg er så glad at du er her for os, det betyder så meget...
Jeg skal poste hvad der sker, så du ved det.
♥Stor klemmer♥
angels_cordy
Aug. 16th, 2012 07:58 pm (UTC)
Ohhh darling

I am sooo sooo sorry.
All my thoughts and prayers and all my good vibes and hopes go out to you guys!! Both of you.
I treasure you and your mum both and you both are close to my heart.
I wish you and your mum sooo much strength and all the guardian angels you need to get over this.
It will not be easy but I know that you both can fight and that you both have the spirti to stay strong and positive. And It does not mean that you are not allowed to show your pain and your sorrow or your fears because that is what makes us STRONG our feelings make us strong so use them. Keep your faith although the fear will be always with you. I am here for you although there is not much I can do but if you need anything let me know and I will do what I can.
I am with you no matter how far away I am
♥♥♥♥
pippii
Aug. 17th, 2012 02:31 pm (UTC)
My Angel, thank you so much for all your sweet and kind words and
for caring for us. That means the world to both of us.
I know you are here for us and you have no idea how much better it makes me feel.
♥Love you Angel♥♥
princesslanie
Aug. 16th, 2012 08:07 pm (UTC)
oooooooo sweetie's your both in my prayers and thoughts. hang in there. take care of both of you eat and rest. hugs.
pippii
Aug. 17th, 2012 09:32 am (UTC)
Thank you honey, that means so much to both of us.
You are a very kind friend.
♥hugs♥
silverraven
Aug. 16th, 2012 11:04 pm (UTC)
Oh no! I am so very sorry to hear this. All the best wishes to your mom! I'm sending SO MANY positive thoughts her way and to you and your family.

*so many hugs*
pippii
Aug. 17th, 2012 09:33 am (UTC)
Thank you for being such a kind friend. That means a lot to us.
♥big hugs♥
2sexyboys
Aug. 17th, 2012 02:16 am (UTC)
Real life is keeping me away, but when I checked this...I am sorry, not that does much for you. Both be strong and know we are all here for you.

XXXXXXX
pippii
Aug. 17th, 2012 09:34 am (UTC)
I helps a lot, knowing there a someone like you that care.
Makes things easier honey.
♥Hugs♥
onci_dium
Aug. 17th, 2012 02:40 am (UTC)
*hugs*
pippii
Aug. 17th, 2012 09:28 am (UTC)
Thanks darling♥

hugs
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